1/08/2017

So you are getting bored with your current relationship!

FIX it!

It doesn't matter if you've been with your partner long-term or short-term, there's always room for improvement. A new year especially is the perfect time for change and growth regardless of whether you two are already solid. By being more mindful about what your relationship needs more of or less of and being proactive about these things can make a huge difference. See how you can make 2017 your best year yet together.





GET OUT OF THE HOUSE MORE
It's easy to get comfortable with your partner and opt for nights in, but that's how things can get predictable and boring. Just because you've been together for a while now doesn't mean dates are no longer relevant. Make an effort to make more plans together off the couch so that you have something to look forward to.


KISS MORE
Remember when you both first met and you couldn't keep your hands off each other? Remind one another of that level of attraction and kiss like you're dating again. Don't let kissing become less and less important over the years.

TALK MORE
We don't mean just about your days. There's always something about your SO that you can learn more about. Ask each other thought-provoking questions to get a sense of each other on an even deeper level. There's bound to be something to discover.


HAVE MORE SEX.
Sex may sizzle down over time but it's important to maintain intimacy. It keeps you together emotionally and physically. Try new things to keep the bedroom game exciting, and make sex just as much of a priority as other aspects of your relationship.

BE MORE SPONTANEOUS.
Don't allow yourselves to get stuck in a routine. Even if you're happy with your daily groove of things, a little spontaneity never hurt anyone. Go on a weekend trip or make a last-minute dinner reservation at a place you've both been eyeing. Adding some excitement can bring you two closer.


SPEND MORE TIME APART.
It's important to spend quality time as a couple, but it's also important to maintain your separate lives. Encourage each other to go out alone with friends or to spend the day catching up on things you each want to do. It'll give you an opportunity to miss each other and value the time you do spend together.

Maybe just maybe.... I will keep this list on my refrigerator so that I read the points whenever I think about just snacking and kicking back in front of the TV.  

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