Fellahs! When did the look of "trust" switch to "mistrust?"

Why are looking at me like that?

Very often we men are so self absorbed that we miss the signs of " change."  You may already know where I'm going with this.... It didn't just happen, there was a buildup, a sequence of events. Even a simple, not thought out carefully set of answers you gave, to questions that were like a prosecutor investigating you for Fraud. Hmmmm! Now that I have your attention. Think back as to when those sexy eyebrows, of hers, were so close together that they formed one inquiry eyebrow, instead of two.If you can freeze that moment and then replay the sequences of events leading up to" you are no longer in a "trusting relationship" mode. The count down has begun to events of mistrust .


Questions that were never asked before are now being asked all the time.
- Where are you going and who is with you?!
- How late will you be?
- What's that sound in the background?
- Is there someone else within earshot of our phone conversation?
- You know I'm not feeling the right vibe right now!
You can ignore the signs if  you want, or you can start running what I call " Diagnostics" the process of trouble shooting.
Trust me the trouble, has already started. Your system should now be at full analysis mode. Break it down and avoid the breakdown that comes when your processing sequence has been hacked.
Save the date and time stamp.
Women know men hide things, case in point, her last relationship turned out to be with a dude who lied to her. Just like anyone else, who thought she had found "the right guy," she was devastated by the breakup since then. She now evaluates people for living, clear and simple her ex's duplicity made her a full search for the flaws in his character and answers...
In your defense you may be sixty shades of perfect, but her past hurts, has now created a woman with a history recall of BAD judgments to a detective expert to detect what skeletons a man has in his closet!