Rejection should not lead to dejection, you should try redirection instead.

When you look back on your life, you should deduct that every time you thought you were being rejected, by someone who was actually not that good, you were being redirected, so you could meet and embrace someone that is better for you, and will therefore treat you much better than you think possible, now that you are expectations have been lowered , due to a rejection in your past.
Dejection due to rejection should become a period of rejuvenation, which you need to recharge your energy source. There is no such thing as love connection at first sight... this is a storybook love is a  fairy tale!

- Lust  on the first date (very possible)
- Infatuation on the first date ( Yes)
- Extreme expectations on the first date (illogical)
- Perfect match after the first date ( delusional)
- Can't get him/her out of your mind after one good date (possibilities)
- A logical choice to date again ( not impossible)
- Planning to have a lasting relationship ( questionable)

You might have experienced some of the above... maybe even all of them seemed "right on point"
The game people  should bring to "a let's get to know each other" date is "Truth or Dare!" I t could be all fun and games until a playful DARE can have you falling for the person you might have not considered to be the ideal one. OK now here is where you might have possibilities, which could lead to possibilities, which in turn can have a happy "Walk, or drive off into the sunset" hand in hand.