Is She Playing you?

If you find yourself asking yourself, “Is this woman playing with my emotions?” The answer is probably YES. Now, there are times where you can be in a dating scenario and a woman’s not calling you back. She’s saying she likes you, but then she doesn’t show any affection towards you and you’re thinking to yourself, “Is she playing with my emotions?” Well, in this case, she is just inconsistent and she’s probably not ready. The number one key takeaway here guys in regards to a woman playing with your emotions is understanding that you are capable of giving your emotions to the right person. When we start to give our emotions to the wrong person, it’s because we’re not doing the necessary work, because we’re not setting the tone, because we don’t know our standards, because we don’t have boundaries, right? And so we underhandedly try to prove to a woman that we’re the right guy, or we underhandedly try to fix the situations, try to resolve her issues, but yet we haven’t resolved what we needed to resolve inside, which is self-love, which is why are we giving yourself to someone who won’t appreciate us? Right? That’s the question. I Got Played! What Do I Do Next? There’s so much advice out there that’s like, “Oh, she’s playing with your emotions if she doesn’t call back.” Look guys, it’s literally just surface-level stuff. This is real simple shit guys! And I’m telling you this because I don’t want this to happen to you anymore. I want you to be in a vibrant relationship. I want you to be in a happy relationship. I want you to conquer the woman you want, get whatever it is that you want, and be the healthiest person that you can be. Now, if a woman is taking a step back and says, maybe you’re a little bit too much or too… she doesn’t want the same things you do at that moment. If she says something along the lines of, “we’re going too fast”, this is not playing with your emotions. This is being upfront. This is being very deliverable in her communication with you and that’s a sign of something you may need to work on with yourself in order to pull back as well. I’m not saying that you’re always the one to blame here, but the only thing is we are in control of our actions and how we enable other people. If the question “Is She Playing with My Emotions?” has crossed your mind before, and if you find yourself in scenario number one or number two , I challenge you to really dig deep within yourself and figure out if you’re putting yourself first. Or you are putting her on too high a podium.