OK fellas let this experienced player help you out... Since I know, you are clueless on this subject.
You know giving her a new hair dryer as a Christmas gift is a "no-no." So what makes an amazing gift? Well, there's a science to the perfect present . Here is the 1-2-3-4-5 Keep It Simple Stupid ,BAD guide to making her happy with you hard searched for Holiday gifts.
1. WHEN NOT SURE ABOUT HER TASTE, GIVE HER LUXURY
Hmmmm! That means something indulgent and a little impractical. It says she's worth digging deeper for. And it doesn't come with a power cord. or confusing instructions, Or needs assembling.
2. IF YOU KNOW HER VERY WELL SURPRISE HER
In a perfect world, every man could walk into a department store and walk out with the purse his girlfriend would have chosen herself. Real-world solution: Ask her to create a wish list on amazon.com (this is my all time favorite)—perfume, purses, books, clothing, everything-—then buy a few items off that list. It's not a cop-out: people perceived gifts chosen from their wish lists as being more thoughtful and personal than presents they hadn't asked for.
3. YOU HAVE ONE CHANCE TO PLEASE HER.
This is where gift giving becomes tricky. We men aren't shy about giving gifts with the hope of receiving sex in return. (Lacy panties, anyone?) If she's a fancy-lingerie kind of woman, that's a great gift. However if you have to beg her to wear lingerie, no deal . A better bet? Buy her a cashmere sweater (for that chilly Christmas night) the color of her eyes, or in a color she frequently wears. It's indulgent—and only for her. That will work.
4. SUIT HER TASTES
The ideal gift reflects insider knowledge about your partner—Lets say, she loves vintage leather purses from Italy. So pay attention—and take notes. Or ask her sister, or her BFF.
5. SHOW SACRIFICE
Sure, shelling out cash shows sacrifice. But the idea is to demonstrate that you care, not to flaunt the size of your holiday bonus. A gift's price had no influence on a female recipient appreciation. Taking the time to choose—and wrap it —a gift is what impresses her. Tell her about your search, and seal the story with a kiss
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