Peacefull living, and tranquility relationships

What does it say about women who get all dressed up and then have a knock-down drag-out fight in public? 

Is it like the picture say: MAMA said  "knock you out!"

I'm confused did these women's  Mamas teach them to fight over MEN? If so. Why? 

Lets start by making better choices... Here is a list of men, women with dignity should deem,  UN-available, off-limits persona non-Grata: So ladies, Just say"NO" to these guys and you may avoid the knock down brall  and other problems that usually happen as a result of you making BAD choices:

1) The Man You Only Know Because Of His Ex Who Is Still Your Friend: That’s a mouthful because it’s too hard to swallow (zinger!); if you would have no other reason to know a fella other than the fact that he dated your homegirl, its gonna look REAL suspicious if you two magically connect after their relationship ended. Were you creeping before? Or simply checking each other out?

2) Your Neighbor: It’s all fun and games creeping across the hall to see that smooth dude, but if it doesn’t last, can you promise that you won’t have your eyes glued to the peephole every time you hear high heels clicking towards his door? I wouldn’t try this unless I had a month to month lease, if I was a woman.

3) Anyone Who Dated One Of Your Family Members: While you might be able to manage something with someone who casually dated a friends or dated one of Family members seriously many years ago, sharing a partner with someone with whom you share blood is just…not smart and it's classless. The high school BF of your second cousin who you rarely see is one thing, but your sisters ex gets the “No, Ooooh  HELL no”.

4)  Your Child’s Teacher: He may be handsome, a single school teachers are a rarity and extraordinarily appealing. He’s good with kids, cares about the community…and he’s got your child’s academic future in his hands. If things go awry, you can have an incredibly difficult situation between the three of you; your little one could also become the subject of teasing or prying if classmates become aware of the relationship. Some school districts have rules against these relationships, as well. If Mr. Williams is too irresistible to ignore, at least wait until your student has moved on to another grade.

5) Separated-But-Not-Divorced Guy: He doesn’t love her anymore, he’s just legally bound to her. No biggie, right? Oh, and if they have kids, there’s the possibility that some family tragedy (or holiday) will pluck him out of your arms and right back into her...their…home.

 6) Your Boss: **Serious face** Aside from the potential legal ramifications if your company has a ‘no romance’ policy, this could be terrible for the professional reputations of both of you; it may be assumed that your workplace accomplishments are the result of your relationship as opposed to your hard work. There could be major problems for you if the relationship goes sour while you still report to him.

7) The Local D-Boy! Wait… do I really have to elaborate, here? Aside from the cancer he promotes in the community, he’s likely going to end up behind bars and you very easily could find yourself doing just the same if you stay in his company.

8) The He-Man Woman Hater! You know, the dude who has nothing good to say about his ex, his baby’s mother, his own mother, Oprah, Michelle Obama, Beyoncé, the waitress at IHOP…if he seems to have a problem with every woman on the planet except for you…you probably aren’t an exception

9) Your car Mechanic: I may be going to the far left with this one, but seriously? Do you know what kind of damage a mechanic could do to your car if he got mad at you? And if you aren’t particularly automotive savvy, you may find yourself paying to have the water pipe evaluator recalibrate under the automatic filter gear, or some other made up vehicular concern presented to you post-romance. If you go there, get a new mechanic.

10) The superstar: He’s cool and successful and all, but do you really want to be the subject of his next record: ‘The Break-Up of (his name)  and (Insert Your Name Here)’?

 Love should be free and without drama and all that good stuff. So you can’t bypass common sense in favor of rose-colored glasses,  when it comes to matters of the heart. A man can be all that and bag of Doritos, kind and just your perfect soul-mate (in your mind)…yet totally, totally wrong for other reasons. Take a look again at the list above of ‘banned’ men and keep your looking for someone else! 

Find someone who will take you to a tropical paradise and not have to lie to anyone as to where he will be spending his vacation. Maybe just maybe He might pop the question and you can finalize the deal on the beach during your vacation which will become your honeymoon.