There is a difference between a keeper and hump-able one nightstand

OK, so what is the difference? Ask most men and we will tell you, our versions may differ a bit, but every man knows that when he meets a woman if she is a one time or maybe a few times hump-able  encounter or a Keeper. Women on the other hand have trouble figuring it out.... if women want to be equal here is where she can move ahead of her girlfriends.... experience the hump-able dude, but don't try to turn him into a keeper.
A man knows if she is a keeper his tenderness lets her know! She should be able to sense if he is sincere or not! 

The most frustrating thing for all of us is not being able to have the option to keep who we think we  want. So ladies here are a few pointers: I will show why a man will make a speedy decision  on which woman meets his needs as "a Keeper."  A woman who reads during her idle time always has my admiration instantly. Why?  because I love smart women who expand their minds... If She reads and discusses things on an intellectual level she is a 'Keeper'!
Why? you may ask is a book or Kindle reader a woman that a man would want  her to become a Keeper... Simple men of the 21st century want smart woman, who maybe able to go from the bedroom to the boardroom. Earning her own money or starting a business or helping her man start and keep a business dream he has going. Making the relationship a collaboration of two people who can work together and establish a future they will both can enjoy.

On the other hand we might spot someone in the club and decide she is a one time shot...but the next morning or the next time she comes to my place I might be asking myself :why  in heavens name  did I do this? Hump-able but "not a Keeper"... We maybe like sexy and lots of junk in the trunk and all that, but we want her to be a partner that can function on multiple levels. not just a smoking hot bedroom partner. 

A man also know if she is  just hump-able! If she only can   cook by heating up TV-dinners in the Microwave then she is most likely 'not a Keeper'

Another example:

So you buddy invites you to pool party and tells  you that there will be  many women to pick from. All you have to do show up.     

 
A dude will look at these two young ladies' shoes and decide which one is a keeper and which on he wants to see perform on the pole at the club. Now that might sound like he is judging her without meeting her and having at least a conversation with her first. Just look, some women can tell you a lot about themselves just by what they wear, and with their body language.

Whereas women will dream about getting with the character they saw in the movies. So if a guy knows the lines by heart he could fake being a "Keeper" while he is really just hump-able... So ladies it always about how a man acts... that makes you believe that he is the one you want... guess what if he is a good actor he will be acting for more than just you. Just like in the movies. He will be juggling his roller deck to pick the one for the night.

We all have fantasies. that we will have a strong flexible partner.  However being too flexible or too strong may also be a problem.