Women find creativity HOT.

 Writing music, performing in a band, or practicing any other music-related endeavors are among the sexiest ways for you to flash your creative side.

Along with musical creativity, “taking artistic photographs” (not dick pics!), writing poetry, and practicing other artsy habits chart high on most women’s hotness meters. On the other hand, interior designing, computer programming (yours truly), and writing advertisements—though all productive endeavors—are less likely to boost your love life. Hmmm, (one of my  regrets) I should have stuck with playing the guitar.

People all over the world list creativity as a desirable quality in a mate. But guys who dabble in what I call “aesthetic” forms of creativity—basically, anything having to do with art or culture—get a bigger bump in sexual attractiveness than those who practice more utilitarian or technological kinds. Why? Art-based creativity tends to be tied in a woman’s mind to intelligence, work ethic, and good genes.
Go figure, a dude can talk about himself  as a third person and get women to agree to be his play-mates for the night. Just because he can sing a tune. or play an instrument.  there is simply something wrong with this, or is it just BAD in my mind.

"Anybody at all has the right to talk about himself-provided he knows how to be entertaining."

~  Charles Baudelaire

One man, two women, is normally  just a bunch of drama. We see it all the time. Movies, TV, music, and unfortunately real life. These love triangles where women fight each other are all around you and in my opinion it’s a damn shame, but if you are celebrity  the drama is not about who you pick... they are fine with just being in the room with you on either side of you, hoping to be call back for a one on one roll in the sheets, because they are in denial. Rather than accept that maybe this situation/relationship is not what they want to believe it is, they would rather displace excitement to be part of the two  women game, for now, because of a man's celebrity status. They would rather not fight  the other woman or and hold her accountable because doing that to the man involved may force him to walk away and replace them for a new two. They don’t want to face the reality that maybe this isn’t truly the best man, to try and live out their fantasy with, because he has no intentions of being with either of them. I figure,  it is much easier to lower their standards and display questionable  character and values, all because of his celebrity status,  than to look in the mirror and be honest with themselves. While they may not  battle each other , for his one on one attention, they settle for being in the bed with him on his terms, not only is this man being amused by this Ménage à trois, he is already planning the next session with two or more other women.

He  probably is on his way to entertaining more women than they know, as soon as he regains his energy. But even if one “wins”his attention, for another chance to be in his bed,  she still lose..... in the end. The real issue has not been addressed and the denial continues. Now I know some situations go deeper than this.... Sometimes that other girl is really just happy to be there because she was invited.... then in that case she wins because she really does not care! 

I know this can be a very difficult situation for a woman who is dreaming about having a celebrity for a mate, because she is planning to win the ultimate prize.But as A+ person with some pride, you  have to step back and put things in proper perspective. unless he ( that ultimate prize)  finds you so dynamic that he is willing to drop his consistent behavior of disrespecting and using women,  not likely to happen,  you lose.   I know it is very easy to get mad at the messenger, for bring you  BAD news. OK my BAD, Just let it go!