How to Stop Making the Same Mistakes Over and Over Again.

You need to Stop having A Cocktail every night!   .

Old habits die hard. This can be an excruciatingly painful lesson to learn, especially when it comes to making mistakes in relationships, example: alcohol
 consumption . While mishaps aren’t always a bad thing (the process of well-planned trial and error can teach lessons), often folks get in a rut where they repeat the same mistakes over and over again. This slippery slope of developing these negative habits can have devastating consequences on a relationship’s success -- if not caught before they become ingrained in established processes.

One way to effectively combat falling into these habits is to constantly stay in the mode of creativity. A creative mindset is one that evaluates problems, adapts to circumstances and implements lasting, valuable solutions.

Need a little thinking outside the box? Try these techniques.

have some herb tea

Switch it up. To catch these negative habits, sometimes you have to interrupt habits altogether. Switch up your morning routine by  traveling a different route to work or stopping at a different coffee shop along the way. One simple change in routine can create a domino effect and inspire you to do other things differently.

We don't need alcohol to be hot for each other

Visualize the process. Begin a brainstorming session What does it look like? Don’t be afraid of being silly or thinking of ideas that are completely out there, in the end, these very concepts could very well hold the answers you’re seeking.

So how was your day ?
 Cheers to our happiness!

Pretend you’re in a different position. To see things from a different angle, sometimes you have to literally move where you’re sitting. So, even though you know what your partner's duties are, do you know what their  day looks like through their eyes? Ask to shadow them for an hour one day and you may see the world differently.

"the things you do are so fascinating!"

Observe without judgment. That one idea that you’re heavily resistant to could have some valid concepts layered within it. Often, judgments are immediate responses and can cut observation off at its source. Simple observation is the root of inspiration and inspiration fuels creativity

Outdoor activities are a welcome challenge!

Get weird. Do something unconventional for You. Don’t be afraid to have fun. Sometimes, creativity can be stifled when indoor environments seem too “stuffy”. Have an partners talent contest.  Have one day where both of you  can dress up like like athletes.  and Seriously compete against each other. These types of activities help people loosen up, which could lead to creative activities together..
A weird short story: Sunday Morning Sex

Upon hearing that her elderly grandfather had just passed away, Katie went straight to her grandparent's house to visit her 95 year-old grandmother and comfort her. When she asked how her grandfather had died, her grandmother replied, "He had a heart attack while we were making love on Sunday morning." Horrified, Katie told her grandmother that 2 people nearly 100 years old having sex would surely be asking for trouble. "Oh no, my dear," replied granny. "Many years ago, realizing our advanced age, we figured out the best time to do it was when the church bells would start to ring. It was just the right rhythm. Nice and slow and even. Nothing too strenuous, simply in on the Ding and out on the Dong." She paused to wipe away a tear, and continued, "He'd still be alive if the ice cream truck hadn't come along."

If you do not laugh at this, then you are seriously depressed,

make a doctor's appointment.

Now I will never hear church bells ringing again without smiling.