You’ve Made it Through the first Date!

 Follow These  few steps To Win her over for  the second and Third date!

Are we really ready for this?

While the entire world seems to have something else on their mind for the second and third date, there are those not quite ready to go there by the third date. However, how does a guy  even get a third date, and what should be done to make it memorable?

Relationship advice often comes in the form of “oh they’re not worth it if A, B or C didn’t happen” or “dump them if they don’t do this or that ”. It’s really not that simple. Getting to the third date means that the relationship is comfortable enought to move forward.
Relationship counseling has recently stumbled onto the scientific notion that nostalgia (or that happy, fuzzy feeling when someone sees something from their childhood) is part of getting to the third date, happiness to the 3rd power.

The feeling is a positive one generally, and often adds a little bit of warmth to the date. This is worth it if marriage is on your mind for the one you’re dating!
Ideas for the third date, when you get there, are widely varied. Usually it is a good idea to skip the typical dinner and do something different. An amusement park, or a day at  the beach  offers a chance to get to see the person you’re dating in a more exotic environment.

OMG my heart is still racing

There is science behind going to an amusement park (or a theme park) for a date. Recent studies suggest that adrenaline mimics the idea of falling in love. Though the effect is more prominent on men than women, the idea is there. If looks are not your strong suite, it might be to your benefit to go on a roller coaster ride, specifically. Those who had finished a ride in the study, but didn’t find their partner particularly romantic, thought them more romantic after the ride.
Another place to go for the third date is to go to lunch, then do something together afterwards. A museum or a walk in the park are both good options. A tour of a museum is another good idea if both of you have a lot of time to kill (or just have nothing else to do that day).

What do you see in this painting?

Don’t fret if the tour is terrible, though. Remember the nostalgia study, and this tip: if it was done together, it is something to remember. You might even be able to laugh at a terrible date in the future; who knows?

If a museum is not your thing (or your date’s), take a hike. Literally. Being in a competitive environment (even if it’s just a sprint down the trail in a ‘who will get there first’ spirit) offers the chance to raise testosterone levels, which in turn may set off adrenaline.

Keep these ideas in mind next time you look to get to  a third date (or are planning a third date).

Don let go my hand
 I'll protect you  from that that great white over there!

No two ways about it: Women consider “chemistry” with a man to be the first step toward building a great relationship. And guess what? Most men would probably agree (although they’re far more likely to say things like, “We really hit it off,” or, “We really got along great”).

#1 Teasing
This one’s a no-brainer. When a man goes out of his way to tease a woman, it not only signals that he’s interested…it also shows that he’s comfortable and confident in his own skin. This is the #1 criteria of potential boyfriend material. One of my favorite ways to tease is to pick out one of a woman’s most attractive qualities, then comment how it doesn’t impress  at all. And then, if the woman teases you back, you can consider it “signal received”…and game on!

Do you feel that positive energy?  your hand is sweating! 

#2 Sarcasm
This one’s more subtle than teasing. It’s being a little too serious for the situation. A great way to use sarcasm to test for chemistry is to take a woman some place that’s just silly and fun on a date… maybe a park. Even a dog park. Then proceed to make comments that are too concerned and serious for the setting. Point is, if a guy is sarcastic with a woman that he’s just met and gets similar sarcasm back, it’s a HUGE sign that she’s interested. 

#3 Shared Interests
Duh, right? Like they say…the only thing that opposites truly attract is relationship failure. So make sure you have a few things in common to enjoy together...... so ask the right questions do not force the issue by insisting on a baseball game if  she  likes Football. 

You smell Amazing!

#4 Breaking of physical space
The clearest signal of all. If you can lay your hand on a woman’s back while you guide her through a door, or gently take her hand to lead her up some steps, and she doesn’t subtly “draw back” or increase the distance between you (even better…if she smiles while making eye contact with you) consider it a sure sign of chemistry…and a signal of a potentially deeper, more powerful connection to come.

So what do these “chemistry tests” all have in common? When you’re teasing, being sarcastic, sharing interests and breaking into her space, it opens up a line of communication between two people that says “I want to know more about you.”