Things Men Like about Women

 You have to have  a lot MORE THAN GOOD LOOKS these days.

A woman's confidence shows in her smile!

Have you ever sat across the table from a man and wondered what draws him to you? You know you look good, but you think that is the only reason he likes you. The fact is it goes deeper than just looks. Here are things real men are looking for in women:



1. Independence

No real man wants to babysit you. Don’t be too needy, or you will chase him away. As much as you are in a relationship, retain your identity and continue being yourself. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you transfer all your needs to your man.
When a woman is confident about who she is and what she is bringing to the table it shows in her body language, her attitude, her sense of responsibility, when we men see that she  capable of taking care of herself it makes us Not have to wonder if  it will be a partnership, instead of a dependency. 

2. Honesty

Trust in a relationship is everything. Lying to your man makes it hard for him to trust you. You might think the lie is small and harmless, but with time, it breaks down the trust that exists between the two of you. Lack of trust also builds a wall between you and that engagement ring. Make sure you keep all your interactions open and honest. Don’t hide things from him, because one day he might find out and the relationship goes down the drain.
Here is where, as a man, I draw the line... Tell me the truth.. especially if you are volunteering information about your past. If I didn't ask you about something, then I'm not that curious...... so when your offer up information tell me the truth. If a woman lies about things she is volunteering to share with a man she will get found out  eventually and all the trust possibilities are out the window. 

3. Supportive

As much as society expects men to be strong, time comes when a man needs a soft place to land. When times are rough, a man is looking for someone to lean on, just a little . We  expect you to be there for us when times become hard. You need to be a good listener and easy to talk to. However, don’t be too supportive to remind us too much of our mother.
Hmmmm,when a woman is supportive she will look you in the eye and tell you she is in your corner. Women have a hard time faking sincerity! 

4. Smart

Men like to talk,(well some do)  and they are looking for someone to share with. Well, it is not just talking, but they seek an intelligent conversation with you. You need to be able to understand current events and sustain a meaningful conversation. This comes into play when you meet with his friends or family too. Men are also drawn to women who can grasp new concepts.

Smart women are thinker, and she will pay attention to what you are saying. so if a man likes women who are thinker then he will make sure taht he saying something worth of her time to pay attention to what he is saying, By speaking about things that cares something  about. He does not have to be a rocket scientist or a Medical doctor... to speak about things that will interest  he will try and talk about things she will see as something  worth listening to and  thinking about. 


5. Humorous

Not everything needs to be serious between the two of you. As much as you want to get into a serious relationship, you shouldn’t be serious all the time. Be humorous and easygoing. Know when to joke and when to be serious. Men want to laugh, and will get closer to you if you make them do it.
Nothing beats a woman with a good sense of humor. Guy can be clowns, some like to laughed with, while other don't mind being laughed at.  Some women may be secret comedians. Show that side of personality and the two of you will be laughing a whole lot.  

6. Up for Action

Let's break a sweat  ahead of time

Men like adventure and they are looking for someone to have it with. Always try to give your man a chance to play out their wild side. If they want kinky, go for it. OK, these days commercials on Viagra and Cialis point to spontaneous combustion between two people...
these commercials talk about men needing a little help with being able to perform like a woman is expecting. However there are  No commercials on the pink pill, yet. Because it is more complicated  for most women.... So  "let's take our time and make it last. " type music should be  playing  to create the right mode. 

Final words:     Looking like a supermodel,  an female actor or  vocalist is not a sin, but men are looking beyond the makeup, curves, smile, clothes and great hair, these days!