So is phone sex back on the rise, with women requesting it more and more

 You can’t see her actions but something tells you there something going on with her….  on the other end of the phone call.

"Excuse me Ms. didn’t we have facetime phone sex last night?"

Are women more and more taking care of their own sexual needs, mainly because the man they like to be with may not be the man they want to have a physical relations with, until they have more clarity of his intentions. They may like his voice but not anything else that he physically bring to the table, because they have not seen him naked.

So what does he do for her in her ears , his raspy voice  triggers her fantasies, his deep bass voice causings som vibration, in her lady basement parts causing her to want to have sex but not with him physically, yet. Well men have been doing  sex calls for years dialing up 1-800-sex phone lines and listening to women (not caring what she looks like on the other end) who can talk dirty to them. There were businesses who made Millions of Dollars having phone banks with women who made a living in the sex talk industry. A safe business were guys could  listen and wack off to her telling him how she could make his fantasies a reality. Now it’s women’s turn. The man is not who she want, yet just his voice telling her what she want to feel in her ear, maybe even providing some visual stimuli, he may not physically hit her “G- spot” but her vibrating rubber hand held device can…. and does it better than any man she has ever been with in her brief sexual encounters.  She does not want to go to porn sites, which will fill up her browser history.. Which will reveal what she watches on her alone time…. But she does want go through the experiences that result in her experiencing the big “O” on occasion.

Women are not microwave ovens like men are. They don’t heat in a minute… they take time to get there, so phone sex calls charging by the minute may be too expensive for their budget. They might want to shop for the right voice that does the trick and maybe visuals of rock hard six packs or even better yet 8 packs, like the personal trainer with a deep voice in her gym.

Not all women have the same taste in male sizes. So women do not go for one size fits all. They may like Hockey, or basketball, Soccer, or NFL football, Rugby, swimmers, fitness trainers , or just the Joe regular next door. Women may want to window shop. But getting the right combination of voice and physical attributes in one package might need a App with selection options. A silver fox may have the mature voice, but not the other visual attributes. A younger man may have the visual attributes but not the voice that she wants to hear. Let’s face it.....women are so much harder to please than men. Men don’t need much to get them aroused…..  but women want what they want.

 

“OMG, that’s it right there say that again ... I’m c%ming.”

Final thoughts

The business model that worked well... “targeting loser men”is not the business model that will attract ”lonely women,” needing satisfaction on demand. I have not done any research on it to see if there are any Apps designed specifically for women  in this area, but judging from conversations I have had with some... I would think there might be a two way window of opportunities here. Facetime might not do. Women might take selfies and send them to a man, and ask for his below the waist pics in return. But the live action is still not something they will want on the internet. With big brother watching and saving it in the Cloud database.This would become a dilemma for some women.  Just maybe too embarrassing for most of them. 

The horror of being recognized on the street by the guy whom she had phone sex with the night before. Might not allow her to do it too often, or ever again.

I know he can’t see the effect his voice is having on me.. 
so, I'm good this way