So how do we do the forever after?

We just need to look beyond each other's faults!

So that we can be  exclusive forever after?

Have you ever wondered how some couples make their relationships work long term?

Maybe they start by looking at their relationship differently to some of us who’s relationships have failed. 

When I read the book “Don’t sweat the small stuff” I understood what had gone wrong in my relationship. You see we men, either want to fix what is wrong in the relationship or lay blame on the other person. Women often resent what the man is not doing that they believe men should be doing, or they have regrets and  have Resentments that can linger for a very long time. 

People who “sweat the small stuff” often ignore the good things that they have with a person. Negative thoughts dominate their minds. They don’t let go of the negative emotions. They hold on to them as a way of self protection. A woman who had men cheat on her, sees almost every man she has ever had a relationship with as a cheater. She can’t let go of that negative emotion no matter how good the new man treats her. He might try to overcompensate for the things she can’t seem to let go of the Emotions that constantly override the current situations that seem to always flood a person's memories, triggered by some little things, from their past. 

We just need to hang together and let our energy flow together in  positive ways.

Whats App msgs, while I’m busy working is a sign that he is thinking about me some of the time.

Let’s face it; He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if you both can make each other laugh at least once in a while, causing you to think twice, and if he admits that he is human and makes mistakes, hold on to each other and give each other the most that you can. He is not thinking about you all of the time, but he will give you a part of him he knows you can break. Don’t hurt him, don’t try to change him, do not expect more than he can give. Don’t overthink or critically analyze, his every move. Smile when he makes you happy, Yell when he images you mad, and miss him when he is not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect couples do not exist, but there is always one imperfect guy who is perfect for you.

Let’s just STOP butting heads over silly stuff?

Final thoughts

Women are often their own harshest critics. They fight an internal dialogue about their worth. Women hold back in case they are wrong. Which puts men in doubting situations. Men can’t read a woman’s mind, so when so many channels are active at the same time in her mind  it becomes “mission impossible.”