dream on, you may be delusional.

 

If he turns out to NOT be  the guy you dreamed about. Then blame your disappointment on your dreams, not on him. He did star in your dreams because they were your dreams that he did not have the chance to read the script for.

To dream that you are in volved with a Prince charming, suggests your need to feel important and need to be with someone who can make it happen. You may be admiring him and his accomplishments from a distance. To see a prince in your dream, signifies honor and recognition will be bestowed upon you too. Alternatively, it indicates your wishes (as  a woman) for romance and accidental meetings and getting involved with that Prince Charming. The esthetics can entice you, but is it real? His personality might become a complete turn off over time.

The dream seldom matches reality because the person will think they can control the narrative.

This suit action should do the attraction trick! Prince charming is not always going to be as women expect  If you get to know the man in a suit you are going to find out he is not as you have imagined him. He dresses for success but when he goes to happy hour he may remove his tie.  I have often said that we men are like cars in a public parking lot.... many of us are not the same. and have individual ways of thinking,and doing things.. Women have always had expectations connected to their imagined Prince Charming to be filthy rich, good looking and charming. Please note it's not about how much money a man makes, but how much he saves and keeps. If he spends money recklessly to impress a woman, he will not be able to do it or be willing to do it for very long.  The esthetics can entice you but is it even real? His personality might become a real turn off the dream does not ever match reality because the other person will think they can modify and control the narrative. Have you ever dreamed of  You at that imagined place or state of things in which everything is perfect. Where the people are perfect, where even the relationships are perfect? Well, this is exactly that paradise that Sir Thomas More so mundanely exaggerated in his novel "Utopia" in 1516. He stated and I quote: "Instead of man being worried about food and supply, the Utopian can feel absolutely sure that he, his wife, his children, his grandchildren, and his great-grandchildren as long  lines of descendants will always have enough to eat and enough to make them happy.” This was a man who was so rooted in his belief that one could actually achieve this “utopian” place; that one could so desperately work to produce affluents . Final thoughts. This is the very essence of the romantic dreamers.... so go ahead and dream. You know, that belief that one can settle down in the perfect relationship, receive opportunities, work hard at keeping it perfect and can eventually live the success of a relation working out.   Prince Charming is not always going to be as women expect

If you get to know the man in a suit you are going to find out he is not as you have imagined him after a long day. He dresses for success but when he goes home after happy hour he may remove his shirt and tie,  and sit shirtless in frontof the TV watchinga ball game.. 

Women have always had expectations connected to their imagined prince charming to be filthy rich, good looking and have the gift of being articulate. Please note it's not about how much money a man makes, but how much he keeps. If he spends money recklessly to impress a woman, he will not be able to do it or be willing to do it for very long.

The esthetics can entice you but is it real? His personality might become a turn off

the dream does not ever match reality because the other person will think they can modify and control the narrative.

Your dream is not his reality.