Over the years I stopped calling mature women "sexy"

MEN NEED TO LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH WOMEN WHO ARE OVER 40.

I figured out that NO woman will dislike being called beautiful.

Men in my age group need to understand that mature women want Respect along with admiration. Telling a woman she is sexy implies you feel you can have sex with her, she may not want to be seen as a sex object.
However beautiful equals esthetically attractive. Being respectful to mature women will allow for friendships that can lead to possibilities.( who knows maybe sex might even happen in time)

 

MEN SHOULD PREPARE THEMSELVES

When some Women turn 50 or even 40 years young at heart, something major shifts in their personality. 

They become bolder, more rebellious, more religious, more focused, more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40-50 changes completely.

Most especially when she had given birth to Children in her earlier years

At that age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to ask some questions :   

      -  Is sex food?

      -  Query some of your instructions

      -  Even the way you behave. 

She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind. 

If care is not taken, you may have to do for yourself :

     -  laundry & Dry cleaning 

     -  Preparing your own food to eat,etc....

Because it might take her more time before she responds to your request.

There is something definitely special about turning 40-50 for Women.

If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair, objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work.

We Men should bear in mind that at this age, Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far ... Their Husbands may be one of them!

A woman at that age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different & weird parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates. 

What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about. 

She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past. 

On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A Woman doesn’t forget those who hurt her (Previous relationships, or You), and by her actions and utterances you will know that she is out to show you that she is no longer that little girl you married.. or work with or report to, BE WISE!

For young men, It might help to learn these things early in life. Women later their live may resent things that she may not have earlier 

FINAL THOUGHT 

No one warnsus men about these changes, we are just suddenly confronted with them.Ask any man who has lived to talk about how women change!