Men don't need to rebrand how they show LOVE

 

MEN JUST DO IT DIFFERENTLY TO WOMEN

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some women are trying to get men to change to be like them 

If men change the things women want from men. Men will change,

 and become too much like women.

here are a few examples.

1. He isn’t afraid to make sacrifices for you.

Making sacrifices for other people is easier to do when it's for someone we care about. It takes selflessness, maturity, and most of all love. Relationships need a balance of mutual sacrifice, or one party is left unhappy.

Men who are in love feel tremendous discomfort at the thought of their lady being unhappy, and if it’s something they can do to prevent it, they will. Sometimes they will even go above and beyond to make something work out, just because it’s really important to their partner.

Ladies if your man can make sacrifices for your happiness, that is just one way he is saying, “I love you”, without actually saying it.

2. He listens to you.

Studies have found that women are much better listeners than men.  So, when a man not only hears you but actively pays attention and responds – a skill called active listening – you can have confidence that he cares.

Taking it a next step further, if he acts on your conversations, he’s smitten. 

 

3. He shows his vulnerability.

Men are generally cautious when it comes to showing any behavior that can be perceived by others as a weakness. They feel that they need to keep a perfect facade of strength.

But when a man is in love, he begins to let his guard down. He becomes more comfortable and allows his real feelings to show. Vulnerability can take time, but if he’s shown even an ounce, he trusts you enough to let his guard down around you.

4. He loves how you look on your “worst days”.

Most people put effort into looking their absolute very best during those early dates. We want to look and feel good when meeting up with a potential long-term partner.

But, once the actual relationship spawns and we spend more time with each other, comfort levels build, and our need to impress declines sharply. Women are free to wander around in their pajamas, no makeup or messy hair.

The big take away here is that when a man loves a woman, he’ll think she is beautiful no matter what she looks like. 

Note: If men don't tell women she is beautiful, her insecurity will rise  to all time new level.

So when he tells you, “You’re beautiful,” when you feel like a mess, take it for what it is and remember that is the equivalent to saying, “I love you.”

5. He’s proud of you.

When a man really loves a woman, he shows it by bragging about you. Yep, that’s right a real man isn’t shy about saying how proud he is of you.

Whether you’re a fantastic mother, a hard worker, or achieving your goals, you can rest assured that your efforts don’t go unnoticed to the man that is in love. So when he tells you, it’s his way of saying, “I love you.”

6. He sticks up for you.

This one is an obvious one, but very important. First lets be clear, if he doesn’t stick up for you, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. This is a hard one. Most of the time drama and controversy can arise with a close family member or even friends.

Most men like to avoid controversy, so if he defends you, that’s big and it’s definitely his way of saying, “I love you.”