When you disapprove of her thug choices in boyfriends it becomes harder to remain a fan of hers.

 There’s no class in high school on how to not be with a shitty boyfriend or girlfriend. Sure, they teach us the biology of sex, the legality of marriage, and maybe read a few obscure love stories from the 18-19th century on how not to be.

But when it comes down to actually handling the nitty-gritty of relationships, we are not given  pointers… or worse, women are given advice columns in women’s magazines.

Yes, it’s trial-and-error from the get-go. And if you’re like most people, it’s been mostly error.

But part of the problem is that many unhealthy relationship habits are baked into our culture(girls are into bad boys, who is than stable good guy, she thinks is a nerd. Women worship romantic love — you know, that dizzying and irrational romantic love that somehow finds breaking china plates on the wall in a fit of tears somewhat endearing — and scoff at practicality or unconventional sexualities. Men and women are raised to objectify each other and to objectify the relationships they’re in. Thus our partners are often seen as assets rather than someone to share mutual emotional support.

FINAL THOUGHTS

I often tell folks I have two sons with good moral character, it's something  Im really proud of. But these days I'm happy that I don't have a daughter. IF my daughter brought home one of these street thugs, that was abusing her. I would go to jail for murder... it would be his last act on this Earth!