4/05/2023

I'M not lonely, I have the mindset of an only child who was raised alone.


Well here is why she Never Feels Lonely.

Being single, for her, doesn’t mean she is alone all the time or lonely, that’s because she has good people in her life who she can talk to, catch a movie with, or discuss business with. 

Intimacy to her is about connections not just being penetrated so she is stimulated on multiple levels just knowing people love her, learn from her, as she learns from them! 

People who rely on romantic relationships as the source of their happiness are setting themselves up for a life of disappointment. Her joy comes from learning, new experiences, and helping others when she can.  not just falling in love or acquiring stuff! 

To her being in love is a state of being not something someone provides you with. Therefore she always  love,  herself, people like you who I touch inmy own special way, and the life that I have cultivated.

And anyone who flows into my life experiences that love. So there’s no room for loneliness because love always exist in my space.

The time that she is alone is not spent feeling lonely but used as an opportunity to relax, recharge, think creatively, and to strategize! Who has time to feel lonely with so much to look forward to?

If you feel lonely because you are “by yourself” then you’ll certainly experience it within your relationships also. It’s not your partners job to get rid of your loneliness…or to make you happy, but to enhance the happiness you’ve already created! 


FINAL THOUGHTS 
Assumed loneliness is just that an assumption by others who do not understand the state of mind of a person who enjoys alone time. 

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