4 Ways to turn her on, Location, location, location location

For many women, a simple touch can be an exhilarating turn-on. Blame nostalgia: The mere sight of your fingers at work can evoke deep memories—in backseats, on blankets, and in dark hallways. Sadly, most women complain their men zero in on the sensitive goodies too soon and spend little time exploring other parts of their bodies. That's why I've uncovered the 4 touching tricks to turn her on. When it comes to using your hands, knowledge isn't just power—it's pleasure.

In The Car

A road trip is worth the price of gas if she  can lie back and soak up the attentions of the driver's right hand. You should focus on the road.

You have nothing but time, so take things slowly—this is what she love. For the length of an average song (perhaps "Slow Hand" by the Pointer Sisters?), glide your hand languidly up and down her thigh, Keep it there for a moment. Take in the scenery. Look at that scenic vista. Added value . say Nice things about her, to her, whisper in her ear if possible.

True, you have no leverage. This limits you to gentle touching. She loves gentle touching. A featherlight stroke over her pants makes her nerves stand on end. Resist the urge to delve deeper into areas that may make her : "No not here!'.

I you are lucky. (Okay, it's about time for her pants to come off. And maybe, uh, park—over there, now.)

A dark lounge

A shadowy corner of a swank lounge is the grown-up version of a house parties during high school. Here's one place where making out in public is condoned, if not encouraged. Kiss her neck, nibble her ear, and engage in deep, wet kisses while stroking her lower back and sliding your hands through her hair. If she will let you touch her hair!

Invite her to sit on your lap sideways with her legs crossed. being touched intimately in a crowded bar, with music blasting, a cold drink in hand, and your warm breath on the back of her neck, is a thrill that lasts—and will continue at home. These are apetizer moments.

The Shower

The pillars of female orgasm are rhythm and pressure, which is why they love to climb on top and sort of take over. One of the best ways to replicate that is only possible in the shower, with you providing a sudsy forearm as a hobbyhorse for her to ride on.

But hold on, cowboy. Just because you're both already hot and wet doesn't mean she doesn't need foreplay. I'm sure I'm not the first  to tell you how sexy it feels to have her hair washed by a man. Massaging shampoo into her scalp will release tension and allow her to focus on her body instead of her to-do list. After rinsing out her tresses, suds her up from head to toe. A hypoallergenic soap that won't irritate her sensitive nooks and crannies. Spend ample time on her shoulders, breasts, bottom, and thighs.Encourage her to move against your arm. Ultimately, let her take over, setting the pace and pressure she needs to reach her peak. For maximum pleasure get a spa shower and you both can enjoy the two for one massage, good hands and water jets. This can do so much for you and her.

The Couch

As you watch TV, give her a foot rub that gradually becomes a calf rub and then a thigh massage. By the time your hand is on her thigh, the television should be off and your lips should be on hers. Raise her shirt and kiss her stomach, then head south while working her jeans off her hips.  A recent Australian study found that an oral-manual combination is the surest path to her orgasm.

These four locations, could become your spots where memories are created and can enhance your pleasures just based on those memories. "Remember when we' might just be enough to get things stirring and the preview is swirling in both your heads.



Many women prefer to be stimulated , just by you asking what she likes best. Alternate between oral sex and  two-handed technique until you find out which move makes her crazier than any other.