Every Dudes dream is to have his dream Girl notify him that she is "into you"

There was a time when the name of the game was to just be a dude with style.. Just having style is not enough anymore you have to  have substance.. To be able to compete with Young Money....that can make it rain in a strip club. These dudes are not just buff and can take their shirts off at he beach....and showcase great abs. So you better don't half step, being a player that can step to the plate and swing for the fence....Let's face it, having more testosterone coursing through your body is going to do more than help you with your stamina and incinerate belly fat. If you're feeling weak, lethargic, and pudgy—and simply less dynamic at work and play—your testosterone levels might be low. You've seen the ads on TV, but low T doesn't only happen to older guys any more. 

 Age, stress, lack of sleep, plastics, soaps, shampoos, toxins in the 

environment — even working out the wrong way — can all sap your body of testosterone.

So what are you going to do about it? Give up and become a "Girly Man, with male boobs?" Not a chance! Guys, have you ever read dating advice articles that tell you to get to work on your physical features? Have you ever read that trying to bring back your six-pack abs and working on those bi’s and tri’s is what’s going to bring the ladies in? Well it’s time to let go of that fantasy. Even though working on your body may help out with initial contact with women – no to mention the health benefits for you from sweat – this is not the way to go if you’re looking for the love of your life. And that's especially to the 40+ crowd. I’m sure you’ve also heard women give the old cliché characteristics that they’re looking for: Features such as the guy having to be sensitive, having a great personality, a fit build, dreamy eyes, etc.  But these are generic responses to what women are truly seeking. Don’t be confused. The previously mentioned characteristics are definitely factors that women seek in a mate, but they're not what sparks attraction. The most valuable asset that any guy can possess when it comes to looking for a mate is self-assurance. Having legitimate confidence in yourself is way more important than having a ripped body or a wallet full of money. You’ve seen it before. A man who would be considered average looking has an amazing looking woman at his side. The old saying of “there are plenty of fish in the sea” is true, because when you think about it, there are more women than men on this planet. Once you take that into consideration, you will notice that if and when you do find someone worth dating, you will both be comfortable in knowing that she isn’t the last woman on earth, and that there are plenty of other opportunities out there if this match doesn't work out. Keeping this state of mind will help you stay relaxed, and that in turn will allow you to give her your full attention.Self-confidence is the best way to attract quality women. Another tip: Don’t let the setbacks steer you off course. There may or may not be rejection, and if there is, it’s best to focus on the positive instead of the negative. If you are going to be working on your physical features, do it for yourself instead of trying to impress the ladies. After all, being in good health boosts your confidence. So put your best efforts into your foray into the dating scene -- physically, mentally, and emotionally. If you do that, the ladies will begin to pick up on it and you’ll be dating in no time. start by having clean clothes for every occasion.