8/29/2012

Doing 'Inexpensive' does not mean you are Cheap!

Newly on the prowl? .



So let’s say you’re ready to spend more of your nights out on the town, but your arsenal of creative first-date ideas is empty. Fear not. B.A.D-ideas  1-5 are at your finger tips.

1. Get Your Sideways On
A good rule of thumb for first dates: Rather than make dinner reservations and take her to an event, make the location of the date the event itself. “This is why wine tasting is such a successful first-date go-to,” Who needs to drop a couple fifties on a bottle of top-notch vino when you can taste multiple selections for few bucks? Simple does not mean you are cheap, impress her with you creativity and not your deep pockets.


2. Think Pub, Not Club

You don’t need to take her out to a place where you will be distracted by the folks who are working hard to  make an impression on everyone in the loud, raging bar to show her a good time. Instead, bring her to one of your favorite cozy bars, grab a pitcher of beer or a couple bottles, and challenge her to a game of pool. There’s something sexy about keeping the date simple and personal.  Having that playful one-on-one time at one of your favorite spots makes for a more relaxed atmosphere. (If things start to go well and she heads back to you place,   be prepared.
   
3.
Head Outdoors

Sure, movies can be nice. But instead of sitting in a crowded, dark room full of strangers, take advantage of the weather. If the sun is shining and the temp isn't in triple digits, pick up a cold six pack (if she drinks beer) and head for the beach or take her to pick mangos. And when it’s chilly out, fill up a thermos with hot chocolate and go for a walk along the beach, and make sure you have a jacket to put over her shoulders if she gets cold.


4. Go Ahead, Be a Cliché

Your date ultimately wants to see that you put in the effort to make her feel special for the evening. So if you don’t mind a little romance, nothing’s more charming than eating  spicy Thai  food for an evening sunset session. Order ahead and get it delivered and dish it out on your best China ware.

5. Play Up Her Interests
Want to plan the ultimate night out? Do your homework first. If you met her online, scan her dating profile and social networks to really zero in on her interests. Then, make your move. Is she a foodie? Schedule a cook-off at your place, invite your buddies and their ladies over, and have everyone bring a dish. That way, you can use your prep time to be alone with her before the competition starts.


These are my top 5. Try to make a good impression using Smooth music, good Food, Drink, ambiance and good conversation  these beat crowded clubs and loud music by a mile.
You want her so make her feel like she should say:"where have you been all my life."

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