From a guy's perspective it can be
the worst date night ever. When your boy tells you his date has a girlfriend,
for you to hang with. You should think Oooh No, Oooh, No. You are town for a few days....He is covered, because he has a girl, but you may not
like her friend or her friend may not show up because she checked you out from
inside her apartment through the window
and thought "Hell NO. He is not my type." Or your boy's girl might figure she can
handle hanging with both of you. You can only dream... that she might be into you too! Not likely to happen unless she is
really into your type... Women who have man, are seldom will to risk blowing a good relationship for a "maybe. "
The most frustrating thing for a guy is if your boy's girl does manage to bring one of her girl friend along for you to hang with and she sits and looks over her shoulder all night to see if Morris Chestnut, Denzel Washington type will be walking through the door.
But if the situations is reversed your girl invites her girl friend to be
the third wheel... and hang with both of you. Now this is so
different... her girl friend might
be hot and she never has a
problem being the third wheel because if you are going to a club she will not
be alone for long. She knows that if her girl is not too jealous she would share you on the dance floor until
the dude at the end of bar sipping his drink slowly figures out she is the
third wheel and comes up to her and asks her to dance. Great! Now You only have to buy drinks for your
lady and yourself from that point
on.
The third wheel has found Mr. Right for the night. Even if he is just
a smooth operator and may never call her after tonight. she will have fun and
will not have to rely on you and your date to keep her entertained. This is a win, win. checkout her body
language! her eyes are saying : "Come yea hither"
OK I'll be fair here; women sometimes get the short end of stick and get
stuck with a Chump who has no idea that this is the 21st century. And Shows up
with long stem fake roses and and box shaped like a heart with cheap chocolate.
DUDE which self- help- book did your read?
We all think we date with a purpose..... the purpose should be a process of
elimination. If you are dating to have an instant relationship you both might
be disappointed before the end of the date.
After the first moments of pleasantries, you have nothing else to talk about so the evening is shot!
"Shall we call it a night?
This isn't working!"
The key making it work is to be different from who is typical
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