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Wondering why she’s keeping extra-close tabs on you?
Protective behavior could signal suspicion!
People who believed their partners  are tempted to stray used “mate guarding” behaviors—like wanting to spend more time together, or being overly inquisitive about plans—to protect their relationship.

Surprisingly, the tactics paids off, prompting the significant others to feel more committed to the relationship. The reason: You often interpret your partner’s jealous behavior as a sign she cares about you.
But don’t let it get out of hand. While a little bit of protectiveness may boost your male ego, excessive guarding could mean trouble. For example, if your girlfriend wants to spend more time together, it’s normal—but if she searches through your cell phone like she’s an NSA agent, that’s crossing the line.

Think she’s going overboard? Silence her worries by being straight with her: Discuss exactly where your relationship stands. Pick a time and place with as few distractions as possible, and begin the conversation by telling her how much you care about her—but admit you sense something is off.

If she’s afraid you want to cheat, it might mean she’s insecure about some aspect of your relationship—and that you probably haven’t discussed it. Ask her: Is she happy? Are her needs not being met? Is there something you can do to help?

Don't fall for that age old trick, where she tells you her place is a terrible place and not fit to live in,  and let her move in with you too fast!

This is tricky. If you’re young and you just met her, you might wait 18 months. But if you’ve known her for years and everything is perfect, 6 months might be fine.  but if you are  mature and lonely, you might agree to let her move in before your really get to know her. It’s all good that you like her and the chemistry is there, but you need to really know this woman. How are her friends and family? How does she spend her money? Where does she see herself in 10 years? Start these conversations before you ask her to live with you, because removing her name from the lease isn’t so easy... Or  worse yet she might think your house will hers....and if you have other plans for your house she might freak out. Just because she assumed that what is yours is now hers. So telling her your kids owns the house already can be a trip down the avenue you may not be ready for. Paint her a new picture of a villa on the beach that you both can enjoy. vacationing in Caribbean can be just what the doctor would prescribe. This is the Love Doctor anti-anxiety advise.