Guys, has your sex life been in a rut lately? Could you have been making one of these mistakes?

You’re single and ready to mingle, but you can’t seem to seal the deal. Hmmmmm! let me think about this for a minute!

In my nearly 10 years as a physical trainer coach, I've discovered this could  mean you’re in one of two categories. You’re either a “Watcher” or a “Pusher.”

Watchers are the quintessential nice guys. They’re so afraid of offending a girl, being rejected or getting a drink tossed in their face that they won’t make the initial approach.

With online dating, many Watchers don’t have to practice that skill of going up to a woman in public without any expectation or fear.

On the other hand, Pushers have no problem making the approach, but they aren't reading the subtle signals from a woman that show they are coming on too strong. and may strike out, because the are patient and swing to early.

Whether you’re a Watcher, a Pusher or somewhere in between, if women aren't sleeping with you, here are some possible reasons why:

1. Your body language is off.

You don’t know if she likes you, so you play it cool – so cool that it puts you in the dreaded “friend zone” after your first date.

Casually touching her hand or shoulder, particularly at a time when she doesn't expect it, can make her see you in a different way, or jump thinking you are getting fresh. Learn to read body language .

2. Your place is a pigsty. 

Sorry, but women aren't turned on by a sink full of dishes or week-old potato chips stuck between the couch cushions.

If you think you might end up back at your place, clean and deodorize before you leave the house. this is elementary read the players hand book. 

3. You don’t dress sexy.

When you’re on a date, you have to find the balance between looking stuffy and looking sloppy.

If you’re coming right from work, take off the tie and undo the two  button of your shirt so she knows you’re there for pleasure, not business.

Even though the other guys may look casual at the bar, you’ll stand out if you kick it up a notch – even just by adding a sharp, tailored blazer over your T-shirt and jeans.with a pocket square. that shows you have style and that you pay attention to details.

“Showing your player’s card signature move to early,  doesn’t

work for a woman who could have any guy, she wants.”

4. You bore her to tears.

Women are tired of going out on cookie-cutter dates. Asking her the basic interview questions like, “What do you do for work?” or “How many siblings do you have?” will ensure that you fade into obscurity.

Instead, ask questions that require an emotional response or a story like, “What’s the most embarrassing thing that happened to you as a kid?” or “What was your first concert?” you attended.. do you like Broadway plays, i.e. Musicals or Porgy and Bess.

5. You bust her chops. or you use stupid humor!

The magazine Players have convinced men that it’s a good idea to insult a woman to get her attention. You might get her attention, but not  the right kind.

There’s a  reason behind catching more bees with honey. this video might just help you. just click

You’ll get further along by approaching her with a simple, “Hi, my name is…” and then complimenting her on something she’s wearing or her smile — never her breasts.

6. You don’t make her feel special.

When guys have a one-track mind, women can feel it. Showing her your player’s card doesn't work for a woman who could have any guy she wants.

Let her know how special and unique she is and she’ll be almost  putty in your hands.

7. You’re too forward.

Unless she is so drunk that she won’t remember it, most women hate the bump-and-grind approach.

Getting touchy-feely too early will make her think you’re a creep. Casual, unobtrusive touches until she reciprocates is the way to entice her.

Whichever side of the spectrum you’re on, these tips can make her crazy for you and keep you sane in the process.

If women aren't sleeping with you, making a few of these adjustments can take your sex life from “no” to “woah”in no time!