4/18/2014

Moment of silence when dating, can be awkward!


 OK so your date is a smoking hot dancer, you hit the dance  floor and everything just seems to clicks.
But you can't dance all night... You actually have to  talk to her to get her to consider you more than a dance partner for the night . Have you ever been in situations after you've met   someone new where you run out of things to talk about, you don’t know what else to say. That moment of silence, you become afraid of what next will happen. And of course you ‘like the girl a lot so you become worrisome thinking she will not be so interested in you. Wow! There goes the bomb. So what do you do in that moment of silence? Well a lot of cases some guys find themselves saying stupid things and asking stupid questions.
Like: "would you get a boob job like that waitress?"
It made you feel stupid as well because the girl would be like -----“what?” ----with that facial expression. Then you would want to back track and think to yourself why the hell did  I say that. But still if the girl really likes you she’ll stupidly answer the stupid question, quite ironic huh. But that’s when there will be a spark right there and also a connection which will actually spark up in a good conversation. If She is not all that interested in you so you are faced with the normal challenge to win her over. however if you do get her back to your place and your ruffle the sheets, you might have that moment of -----"what was I thinking"-----  for both of you. 
Regret is the most Awkward scenario you ever have. The moments of silence may now be permanent.
Silence in this case might lead to her finding an excuse to leave, that is just not good for you. So saying stupid things is not an option at this point.try and focus on a topics that women like such as fashion, music, their favorite icon singer or role model. That will get her on your side of breaking the silence, thus leaving you with a 7/10 chance of keeping your date going. 
Or having a second date in the future..

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