'The Man On Your Couch. '

Who is this guy camped out on your sofa?

  A guy who is having a "sit-in" at your crib, should come with a "warning sign!"

How do you Deal with Jealousy! Start by knowing the different types of jealous emotions.

Ladies: Some men you may date can be very jealous. They want to know your every move. They text and call you 24 hours 7 days a week. You can be very annoyed with this experience. It can lead to a break up called by you. he might as well  breakup with you by his obsessive thought of you having another guy each time he sees you talking to a friend, your co-worker or class mate.

In cases like these you might be forced to take action. It might be a mixture of jealousy and obsession which is a very bad recipe for any relationship. If you really love him or want to have a future with him you might consider counselling but if not its best not to tarry too long with a obsessive and  a very jealous man.
Jealousy though can be  a good thing!

this may sound like a contradiction..because Jealousy can a negative emotion.
A relationship without jealousy tells another story.It shows how much the relationship is worth, for instance if your guy don’t become a little jealous when he sees you with another man that appears to be a potential treat to your relationship then chances are your guy  is not in-love with you and he might be dating you for other reasons apart from love, like money.... OK many,  women have the better jobs these days.. so that is not so far out there..... a guy might be in the relationship for the money! I think it would be ideal to say you should not feel too comfortable around overly jealous men.

Jealousy can be good and bad. Let us start with the negative effect first. Your guy  could be so insecure and jealous that he will go to the point of dating another girl to cover up that he is, overly jealous.That would definitely have a negative impact on your relationship. The relationship may become abusive especially if you are also very jealous.  In this situation you have to be extremely careful and be conscious. Don’t let your emotions get the best of you. The last thing you want is a physical dispute between both of you. Both of you should work out your differences and understand each other. It’s better to be verbal with jealousy than to be at risk of trauma caused by physical disputes.

The positive side of your date being jealous is one of which you know factual that you are not being played. He is jealous because obviously he really cares for you and he has good reasons for dating you. He’s not dating you just for the cookie or  money or what you can give him but rather for what you mean to him. If you know he’s is a  lady killer, that gets jealous easily you should try not to steer him in that direction. You can do it just to test his feelings for you. but don't push it!

If in the case you are the one, ladies, that is insecure and becomes jealous of your guy easily you should address the issue. Do not bottle it up inside you as in..... don’t pretend you are not that jealous type. Let him know that you are easily affected by who he talks to and text. He will then become more comfortable around you and without you asking, give you all details on his going in and going out.  Maybe! so having consistent Skype face to face moment when you are in two separate locations!