Perfectly Happy People cheat, simply because Cheating makes them perfectly happy!

What is Erotic intelligence?

So, why does good sex so often fade, even for couples who continue to love each other as much as ever? And why does good intimacy not guarantee good sex, contrary to popular belief? Or, the next question would be, can we want what we already have? That's the million-dollar question, right? And why is the forbidden so erotic? What is it about transgression that makes desire so potent? And why does sex make babies, and babies spell erotic disaster in couples?

Honey  I'm just having a drink with the fellahs, I'll be home late!

Why do we cheat? And why do happy people cheat? And when we say "infidelity," what exactly do we mean? Is it a hookup, a love story, paid sex, a chat room, a massage with a happy ending? Why do we think that men cheat out of boredom and fear of intimacy, but women cheat out of loneliness and hunger for intimacy? And is an affair always the end of a relationship?

Now, monogamy used to be one person for life. Today, monogamy is one person at a time. 

Now for my BAD perspective: 
Think about your own sexual history, If You were faithful to your partner for a period of time (term limit) and then both of you  split. and then you were faithful to your next partner for another period of time (another Term limit) ... I know because this is  how we all see relationships in modern times of being faithful for term limits. Very few have been in just one relationship  from beginning until death do you  part. You were not her first Love, Fellahs, and she was not your first love either. As you mature you try to forget the history  of your partner when you first met.  You were not her first choice.. she wasn't yours either. some other folks preceded you in a  relationship with your new  partner, you are expecting  her to be faithful to you and you to your partner from this point on. the major difference is the contract you may have now signed when you get married. If you've never been married to someone else  before...... you didn't sign a contract. So you think those prior relationships are just null and void?? But they did happen, they can not be erased from history . So why are we always tripping about other folks behaviors.. We find out that our partner was attracted to someone else or may have spent intimate moments and even share thoughts and wishes with someone else and we loose it. How could they do that??. Maybe, just maybe because they  excited your partner for a period of time (a short term limit) and then the term ended. emotionally even if it was not a physical  relationship it  interrupted  thoughts during your wedded bliss.  We should be use to interruptions. we have interrupted our relationships in the past to get to one we are in now.  OK,  If you have not yet listen to the video. you might want to  do it now. she open my mind even more than it already was.