Reasons Why Most Men may not Want To Get Married

It's just US now dino we don't need to follow that crowd!

So you’re making the big step. You’re taking the plunge. Getting attached to the old ball and chain.

Don’t get the wrong idea. Having a steady love has a tremendous amount of advantages. But if you’re a dude, there are some things you are going to have to get used to (and ladies, you might want to check this out, too, so you appreciate what your man is doing for you).
I will add a few BAD thoughts to the following. 

• Your weekend – you might be able to squeeze out Sunday’s game with the fellas, but much of your weekend is going to used for quality time with your s.o. (significant other) or performing the tasks you have been assigned – mowing the lawn, cleaning the garage, bathing Rover.

Life is good , my work is done!

As I  have a ton of experience in this area... I have to state that you have the same responsibilities as a single man. Proper time management allows you to  do all the above... You just have to allocate the time as to when you will do what. Spending time with your s.o. is what you are already doing ... simply because if you are not doing it you are not going to get her to consider spending the rest of her life with you. 
   

• No more gal pals. Those silly little texts, the taps on the butt… all that goes down the toilet  now. Your girl is No. 1 now, No. 1 and only, that is.
Let's examine this for a moment.  do the math, she is already No. 1..... We (as  Men) believe we always have options to change (she is not a wrinkled shirt) or even have a default option (she is not  a t-shirt) . think about it carefully  because  she also has options.. she can pick someone else to be her No. 1 this is the 21st century. Women are  more progressive, many are more progressive than men. Your woman may let you think that you chose her, but guess what she picked you. She had discussion with her girls about you,...... subjects like: - are you the ideal man, - are you the best choice to have kids with? while we men are looking at women as trophies.. we are not seeing that women are seeing us as....? 

• Nix the flirting. It ‘s a no-no now. No more playful banter with the waitress at the IHOP or winking at the girl that makes your coffee at Starbucks. Oh, you can still do it, but only if you want to create friction between you and your steady Lady..

guess what we are paid
to flirt with you fools!

OK STOP it ..... flirting REALLY.... I can only see this as an excuse that.. makes Zero sense. picture these women as cars. OK hang  with me for a second! when a guy buys a new car, he still admires other cars, more expensive cars than the one he bought. Never do we look at women that work in IHOP or Startbucks as a perfect upgrades to be our  future wives. so flirting with these hard working women with dead -end jobs..... Is like your lady flirting with the lawn guy... and  the Valet guy. she thinks they are cute guys but not a trade up from you. If she thinks he's  trade-up ...... then you have to ask yourself  where are you lacking???

OMG I will want to  die
after drinking all of these!

• Cut down on the indulgences. Those nights with the boys when you got totally wasted . You got someone to go home to now, someone who is not going to take lightly to finding upchuck inside the front door.
SMH... dudes getting wasted only leads to liver problems later on in life, Plus you look like a fool in front of strangers and friends  who  may even Instagram you doing  stuff at hooters that you can't deny and show it to the World that you are an idiot,  and worst of all the lady you are considering as your-for- ever- after will now see you as the out of control not so cool dude that you are. 

• Your wallet – it’s not just yours anymore. She has access to it to pay for the pizza, get shopping money, etc. So your budget is quite a bit less now.
News flash: your wallet is not totally yours when you are dating. you spend more bucks  during dating than you do as a married man unless you are acting like a single man when you are married. When you decide to go on a exotic trip with your lady, it is part of the budget, but when you are single it is your expense totally your expense .... unless she is willing to go half and half  in that case she is a keeper.   

this  is all I need as a single man

• Your space gets smaller. You will get less of the closet, fewer drawers and some of your stuff will be relegated to the garage or storage. Oh, and those macho black sheets, consider them gone. They will be replaced by a floral pattern that matches the curtains.
Very few of us guys live in 3,000+ sq ft. place all alone. but when we have someone in our lives it becomes the goal to expand the space. Look at one of the richest soccer player Cristiano Ronaldo. His apt. , in the Trump building,  is small but it cost $18 Million+  do you think his lady would settle for that kind of square ft... for $18 Million+ he would have to let her shop for much larger place. Problem solved women need space you will gain move space when she intends to share living space  with you. 

 Your identity will change. Remember, it’s not Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt anymore – it’s Brangelina. Even Kanye West lost his identity when he hooked up with Kim Kardashian – it’s Kimye now.
OK this is just Marketing  B.S. trust me you will not have this problem. My ex-wife still has  my last name. I was never ever  known as anything else but who I am (my name stayed the same from the day I was born.) My ex-wife has had my last name for most of her adult life... and did not change it after we got divorced.... now her last name is the same as her two sons leaving no question as to what her status was when they were born.... 



Being a couple has tons of advantages and they are probably worth more that what you think you have to give up!