He loves to cook, so why are you insisting on being taken out for Dinner?

take my picture!

Well some fortunate lady lucked out ... she  found a man that knows his way around the kitchen. He is willing to impress her with his gourmet meals...... so why  would she rather dine in a restaurant?
Could it be just to make the man spend money... the more expensive the meal the more she is impressed??? Or does she just want to be seen in a fancy restaurant, taking Selfies to post on social media.... just to make her girls envy her to the max.

This is an expensive meal Right?

When a man knows he can do something well and that something can please his lady... she should take into consideration the effort he put into doing his best. This is a no win situation, because she want what she wants...
#1 A man who can cook."
#2 " A man who is  willing to spend money to impress.. her... and others"

Why can't a guy do all of the above?
If he can't then he better keep shopping for the type of woman, maybe like his mother was, who was happy if she found the right guy (his dad) who is a provider, and is willing to do more than her share to make the household happy and functional.
The new-age females are not like that (women of your mother's generation).... anymore. If you find one..... lock her down ... get her to marry you and be totally thankful  and pray that she does not change.... outside influence will creep into your business and disrupt your life...
As the holiday roll around we are reminded that the season of being Jolly and joyous and happy is about materialistic purchases... make it yourself and no one really appreciates it .... "where is the prize tag.... I want to see how much you paid for this gift......."
"You made it yourself, you are so cheap....!"

Did you just call me a Ho?

"Happy holidays..... Ho, Ho, Ho... "