Are you really going to eat more than your share? |
There are no equal relationships: There will always be one partner who loves the other one more, which is so unfortunate since the one less involved gets to always call the shots.(it's eating at a buffet the one who has the greatest appetite is the one who will get carried away.)
This makes it possible to fall out of love with someone, which leads to a breakup. It may seem like the end of the world but life always moves on.
The perfect relationship doesn’t exist — no matter how hard you try or how many rules you follow: Your relationship will never be perfect because perfect doesn’t exist. So you should lower the high expectations of romantic dinners every night or surprises every morning because this only happens in movies. The key to maintaining your relationship is just lowering your temper and trying very hard to understand your partner.
You will always have something to argue about, healthy arguments and not unnecessarily cribbing are a way of showing that you are working to make your relationship work.
You have to work for happiness, sometimes for a long time: Most people want it to come naturally with a great relationship but happiness is something that you have to work towards.
Fight the monotony that is assured to fight in. Forgive some things and take a stand for others while always working towards happiness.
Trying to make it work doesn’t always work: You may decide to make it work and you’re willing to try your best but unfortunately, it can’t work.
Relationships work simultaneously and both members need to put equal efforts. Your sex life will definitely change as the relationship progresses: The wild passion from before will stop making you go towards a more mature relationship.
You will be unhappy at times and that’s completely OK and normal: Romance is good at times, but sometimes lack of it is even better. At times, just changing into your pajamas and relaxing with you partner can be far best.
The hard times can be a hidden blessing and you notice later that nothing will develop that bond as the hard times.
So in conclusion, in a good relationship, you will need to care and show concern for your partner. You need treat him/her with love, not ambivalence or fickleness.
In a true relationship, love requires actions because at the end of the day talk is very cheap, love is shown and you feel it.
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