What's the best recipe for a good Relationship these days?

We surely had a great time tonight. Didn't we!

When we see a happy couples we think to ourselves.. Man ooh man are they lucky... or wow..... she found Mr. Right. and he found Mrs. Right.
We seldom know the full story because on the outside they look happy .. but will it last?
There are those of us who were in happy relationships at some point in our lives... but then something changed ... and just like that we became statistics added to  the columns of folks who didn't make it. However most of the issues that cause people to split are often the little things that one member of the duo stopped doing. the following are some examples of thing I use to do in the beginning and stopped doing them. So I'm guilty of taking my ex-wife for granted... and so she took me for granted... and so the result was a no fault divorce of ill-reconcilable differences.

Let's go for the sure thing recipe! Sure to impress! 
What's the best recipe for a good Relationship these days?

Guys who  do things in the beginning like
 trying and figure out what he did right to make her smile brightly at important  moment. Maybe he was smart and cooked for her the first time she came over.  He tried some new recipes he found on Youtube and they turned out  great. So they became his signature recipes to  Wow a lady with.

It's just the right temperature

He ran her bath when she was tired and came home late from work. 

He would make sure her towel was warm so that when she climbed out of the tub she could wrap herself in a warm  towel...especially in the winter months.  

Do you mind if I kiss you here? 

He Kissed her in a place she was not expecting and she liked it! this is very important because it was not lead into sex.. it was intimacy that was displayed in public and in private....

He spend quality time reading  her favorite book with her.  this was  during TV sport center of first take ... so she really appreciated it... because he was dedicating his sport time to her and doing what she liked.

How did you know this was my favorite book

This is so romantic.. I didn't know you had it in you!

installing a two headed shower, or taking tub bath together promotes togetherness... you even feel cleaner cause to other person can wash those area for you !

we are Planning together for the future!

Planning together is key to having the best recipe for a good Relationship these days!
These days we men assume that women have to cater to us for the relationship to work.... If we continue to Ass-U-me we will find ourselves with our bags packed outside of the door and the locks have been changed. Bye bye!