Questions we should ask when we are struggling in our current relationship

WE NEED TO ASK THIS "Q":  DO WE MAKE ENOUGH TIME FOR ONE ANOTHER?

So is this the way,
 you want to spend time together?

All of us have many obligations in the modern world, and life can get pretty hectic from time to time. However, no responsibility should take precedence over the love we should have for one another. People either make time, or excuses, so if it seems that your or yours  often make the latter, do you really want to continue the relationship feeling like you’re constantly put on the back burner?

ASK THIS "Q": DO I REALLY LOVE HIM/HER, OR JUST THE PERSON I WANT THEM TO BE?

Oftentimes, we convince ourselves that people will change as long as we give them time and support, but honestly, people will only change if they truly want to. Plus, if you can’t love the person as they are right now, will you really love them at some point in the future once other conditions have been met?

If you can’t say with certainty that you really love them, you owe it to your partner to tell them the truth – it might hurt, but the pain of staying in a false relationship is far greater – for both of you.

ASK THIS OTHER "Q": WOULD I REGRET IT LATER IF I DIDN’T END THE RELATIONSHIP TODAY?

Five years from now, would you look back and wish you had moved on from the relationship? Living with regrets will always leave a deeper wound than getting out of an unfulfilling relationship, even if that means you have to be single for a while. Stay true to your heart, and never stay in a relationship just because it feels comfortable, or because you feel like you’d be letting the other person down.

ASK THIS SIMPLE "Q": DO THEY ADD VALUE TO MY LIFE?

Where is the enhancement you promised?

Do they truly enhance your life, adding color and vibrancy, or make you feel drained and uninspired? If you start seeing everything in black and white once you’re with them, is the relationship really worth sacrificing your happiness for?

ASK THIS IMPORTANT "Q": WOULD MY LIFE BE BETTER WITHOUT THEM IN THE PICTURE?

This is really the Ten million dollar question – what would your life look like without them around? If you imagine yourself as a happier, freer, more peaceful person, you need to sit down with your partner and come clean about your feelings. Breakups can cause a temporary upheaval and emotional tidal wave in your life, but you will feel much better following your heart and cleansing your life of any negativity.