So being cheated on is not such a BAD thing? Really?

I know this feeling is not due to a happy relationship,
 I can feel the presents of a third part.

A Study Says, Women Betrayed By Unfaithful Partners End Up in Stronger Relationships Later in Life.

Being cheated on can be GOOD for you?

Psychologists asked 5,000 people about their relationship break-ups.Women who were cheated on tended to make better choices in the future.
They also experience personal growth outside  of their relationships.
But the new women with their unfaithful partner turn out to be the losers

When a woman’s partner cheats on her, the betrayal and grief she experiences afterwards can be difficult to get over.

But researchers have found that women who lose their unfaithful man to another women may actually be winners in the long run.

They say the experience she gains from the infidelity of their partner helps them make better mate choices in the future.


While women can suffer short-term grief and a sense of betrayal when they discover their partner has been cheating on them, they ultimately benefit in the long run as they learn from the experience to make better choices about their partners while also undergoing some personalities growth

And perhaps most gratifyingly of all, their partner’s new woman is actually the ultimate loser.

In affairs, you lose some, and you win some.
But these moments are never forgotten

Dr Craig Morris, an evolutionary biologist at Binghamton University in New York, who led the study, said: ‘If we have evolved to seek out and maintain relationships, then it seems logical that there would be evolved mechanisms and responses to relationship termination.

‘Over 85 per cent of individuals will experience at least one (break up) in their lifetime.



While the research, stated above, may prove to be true... in these cases....my experience has been quite different. Most women, that I've met, who have been cheated on, were pretty much jaded. Very suspicious about the man that approaches her:
- why, are you, Mr. B.A.D....mature man, out here looking for someone new...
-why aren't you happy in your relationship currently or are you cheating on your significant other too...I know your type!
-You, men are all the same.. you pretend that you want a good woman and when you get one... you treat her badly and cheat on her.....playing tricks with Trixy from down the street.
Need I go done the long  list of negatives?
Folks...a man needs a PhD degree in psychology ... to deal with every new relationship with a woman who has been hurt due to betrayal, and is carrying heavy baggages, of suspicious ghosts in them. But inspite all of the negative vibes she throws out at you..... she still wants you to say all the right things to her.                              "here and now!"