How does a couple go from hardly ever arguing to getting a divorce

To one of them filing for a divorce, with the reason being "irreconcilable differences"

Well maybe by just talking about your problems to the wrong people.

Love without Actions means Nothing

Trust without proof is nothing

Saying "sorry" without change is an empty gesture!

This is the position we will establish whenever we have an argument that cannot be quickly resolved. It is the posture of intimacy and peace. From this place we can speak to each other and listen to each other; no need for yelling or weaponizing our words against each other as if we are enemies. We are one with each other--spirit, soul & body. Ergo, the deep love we share together is far too great to allow any disagreement to divide us. 

My energy is positive right now,I will not let negative energy to override my possitive!

Final thoughts.

Love and peace between us is what my heart yearns for, it is what lies within our core, so baby let's kick negativity out the door, and position ourselves to have our intimacy restored.