The spider web is not only for the unsuspecting insect

This is the status that some women "Love' and all  men  'hate '

A guy thinks like this  "I awaken this morning and I thought of you but then I was hit by reality. At first I was not sure, but now I'm sure that this is so us... YES.... you and me. the signs speaks for themselves.... How often has this happened  to men who are delusional about the female he can't get to first base with and can't  get her out of his system. He pines for her, he tries to impress her, he does whatever she ask of him.. All that is to get past this 'Flirtationship' status that seems to hang over their relationship like a cloud. She likes him maybe even love him in a way(like a friend), but it will probably never go any further. Women hold the key to relationships in their hands. Men just want to get a hold of that key to unlock the one thing that will move from 'Flirtationship' status to 'Relationship' status. We men are single minded. Every other variation is too complicated for us, we want to get to the part where we have benefits. Only women can come up with new definitions for friendships without benefits.  Men never even think these status are real until we are hit with the Stop sign and the disillusionment that follows.
Only in the movies does a guy get his dream girl as if she was made for him... Oooh yeah, his name was Adam and he was in the Bible.he started it and he was blessed and cursed  at the same time.
So to all the fellas reading this post. Be careful what you wish for. We have had thousands of years of hard labor because of this perfect mating  effort that Adam started.

Nature has its own way of putting the male spider out of his misery after mating with the female of his choice, maybe she wasn't his first or even second choice, but he became her choice for dinner... after that he never got to make another choice.
So make sure your life insurance policy has the right beneficiary on it, just in case, women start behaving like female spiders. the warning signs are always there you just need to pay close attention.   Remember "failure will help pave the way to your success. " So every time you don't succeed with a woman see it as another step towards successfully finding the right one for you.
While it seems like some people never experience setbacks, the truth is everyone fails from time to time. The difference between successful and unsuccessful people is how they deal with failure. Those who find success are the ones who learn from their mistakes and move on.
Most men think like this. "My opportunity monitor is never turned off. "
Yes, there will be days when you will want to just be happy with the status quo. But remember that successful people are always on the lookout for opportunities to improve their status. Keep your eyes, ears and your mind open to new opportunities -Note I didn't say heart, you don't want to lead with your heart- you never know when you will discover the one that will change the course of your life. This is why the female spider does what she does she mates with the  male and he becomes hers and only hers and then he is done. So the next time a female picks you. Ask the right questions. "Are you going to kill me slowly with  Love and affection, from this day forward."

You see we fellas all think like this “I don’t get why getting married so soon is so important to most women. Is love  not enough to having a relationship?”
If you move too fast you will find yourself thinking like this dude: "I don’t understand their attitudes! Everything is good for, like, the first three months, but after that, it’s a whole different ball game!”
Another example: “I am confused enough about why the onslaught of hormones every month, like clockwork, still takes me by surprise (the next day when she gets her period, I’m like, Oh! We got into a fight because she was hormonal!), but why does that fact take her by surprise? Shouldn’t she kind of realize it and be like, ‘Don’t listen to me—I’m hormonal’?”
“I don’t understand why women can’t just speak more directly. They always want you to do something, but they don’t put it in words. Instead, they talk around the issue. I wish they were more up front and just said it!”
More examples: “I don’t get why women say one thing and mean something different. Like when they say, ‘You can watch the game with the fellas,’ and then when you do, you get in trouble.”
“What I don’t understand is why girls really, really, really want that nice guy, but once they find one, they can’t date him because now they need a jerk.” I guess that is 'Flirtationship'