3/16/2013

She says "you are funny," is that a good thing?


Crack her up, an you might bring her home for dinner. Being funny makes you more attractive to women, according to new research in Personality and Individual Differences. The problem is being funny is way easier said than done. While there's research here and there about what kind of jokes kill (dead) with the ladies—one 2011 study found women are most attracted to men who use dry, sarcastic humor—comedy is hardly an exact science. But luckily for you, we turned to real comedians and did the legwork.This why Kevin Hart still lives with his mother... OK I don't know that for sure.. But at 5'2" short, he most likely does because he is not fully grown yet.
Hot woman laying on bedResearchers guess that women might seek funny guys for flings because it signals that they’re not serious or willing to invest in a mate,yet according to the study. But many women—regardless if they’re looking for a one-night stand or future husband—appreciate a comedian: In a survey of more than 1,000  women ages 21 to 54, 77 percent of women ranked a sense of humor as their number one must-have in a man, beating out intelligence, passion, confidence, and generosity.
The problem? Being funny is easier said than done. While there’s research here and there about what kind of jokes kill with the ladies—one 2011 study found women are most attracted to men who use dry, sarcastic humor—comedy is hardly an exact science.
So we turned to real comedians for their advice on how to be a funny flirter. Use these words of wisdom to make her laugh so hard that she’ll have no choice but to come back to your place and catch the encore set.




The comedian: Steve Harvey.. Think like man and act like lady!
 
My advice: Don't Use the corniest line in the book.

“I know men sometimes don’t believe that intelligent humor is what  impress her on both levels, but trust me: If you want to bag a cool, smart chick, having a sense of humor is an absolute must. And it’s best to lead with it—make her laugh, and you’ve got her attention. Here’s a line I just came up with that would knock my pants off: Walk up to her and say, ‘Excuse me, I know this is weird, but you look exactly like my next girlfriend.’ Really?  I don't recommend the standard, ‘Come here often?’—especially if it’s on the train, the street, or at a funeral. It’s so cheesy that no woman would think you’re using it seriously.”

The comedian:Kevin Hart. Short people see things differently.
My advice: Don’t try so damn hard.
“Try to let your natural wit come out through conversation. Self-deprecation can work well because it diffuses your ego and lets her know you’re self-aware. But don’t go too far—too much can make her think you have zero self-confidence. Joke about what’s happening around you. Is your waiter being too aggressive with the dessert menu? Is there a creepy dude at the end of the bar? Joining forces to make fun of the crazy world around you can be a great way to connect.

The comedian: Rodney Dangerfield. He hates every thing about himself.
My advice: Confidence is key.
“Yes, women like funny guys, but it’s what’s behind the funny that’s so attractive. Guys with a sharp wit and winning sense of humor are usually chock full of confidence as well. There aren’t a lot of funny wallflowers out there. And don’t kid yourself—even the nerdish guys like Woody Allen and Larry David are cocksure. That confidence is what appeals some what to women. Having a guy who can make them laugh is just icing on the cake.”

The comedian:Eddie Murphy, he is just raw.
My advice: No obscure impressions, please.

“I like it when we guys uses self-effacing humor. But if a guy starts crying. Then everyone feels uncomfortable. Please do not do impressions—especially of someone from your third-grade class about whom no one knows a damn thing. If you find yourself start doing impressions, this is the perfect time to excuse yourself to the men's room, giving everyone time to leave.”
Any of the above mentioned comedians can give you examples on how to be funny, however be aware that most woman  have also seen them, so copying can bomb if you forget the punch lines. So be naturally funny if at all possible.

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