7 Reasons Married Men Enjoy Cheating – New BAD Analysis!!

Cheating is wrong, I am not in anyway trying to justify it. However, as a man, I must put myself in some men’s shoes and then try to rationalize...

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1. Neglect of the man
Most married women tend to neglect the men when the kids start coming. No more love up evenings, no more hanging out. The wives always claim to be tired even when they have maids. Men tend to seek solace outside because they need someone to hang out with, to watch movies with and to share romantic moments with. Unfortunately, many girls out there are willing to fill this vacuum that is create by wives who don't see the need to be the women that  would feed their man with what he wants and needs.

2. She  Neglects  herself
Give most women 3 to 5 years of marriage and you would see the majority of them are no longer that sexy chic they used to be. No more doing up her hair regularly, no more trim figures, no more keeping up with the fashion scene. The sexy woman you married now looks like your auntie. We all understand that kids are a handful and make you tired but the problem is that they are so many sexy hot girls out there that makes your husband remember the old days. For men who are easily tempted or those who married their ‘spec wife’, they start looking for another spec substitute since you are no longer the "spec perfect" chic they married.

This in not having my back!

3 Reduced Intimacy
A lot of men consider intimacy and sex as a big factor in choosing a wife. If a woman has a good character but is poor in bed, most men would look somewhere else for a wife. However, many men married their wives because they used to get satisfaction from her. After marriage, most women don’t care about pleasing the man like they did in the beginning. A lot of women always claim tiredness. For those men who have a high libido, expect these men to look elsewhere for satisfaction.

4 Nagging
It’s easy for a single woman to be loving, caring and understanding. After marriage it becomes a different kettle of fish for some women. they nag you over every little thing. For a man who can’t stand it, he seeks solace outside, mostly in the loving arms of another single lady.


5 Variety

I can't fight this feeling anymore.
 I just have to have you!

This is a point that has no justification but many men cheat because they want different variety. They claim that you can’t eat one soup forever, hence they seek out a different ‘soup’. This is bad and is totally the man’s fault. However, it is one of the major reasons most men cheat.

6 Temptation
These days some women come at a man with full force even when they know he is married. There are lot’s of single girls out there ready to claim another woman’s husband. Sometimes, it’s difficult to resist a sexy girl who wants you and is offering herself willingly. Most men fall for this. Even pastors have fallen for this reason. That’s why couples should be prayerful and men should pray against falling into temptation.

7. Some men are just dogs
Some men are really dogs. They cheat for the sake of cheating . They act like they are under a spell. They would sleep with their maids, secretary, bread seller, in short anything in a skirt. Give them a model wife who gives them everything and they would still cheat. A lot of men who have many wives (culture of one to many)  and girlfriends usually fall into this category. No justification for such men. They are cursed, but feel blessed that they can do it, and enjoy it..... until they can't anymore. Nature catches up with them eventually.