4/26/2016

Signs You’ve Found the Right Relationship

Couples that cook together eat together.
and spend quality time together
 

Sometimes it’s easy to tell when a relationship just isn’t heading in the right direction.  Sometimes things are going great when a sudden patch of roughness turns things upside down, leaving the two of you reeling and confused.  It can be hard to tell if you should stick it out or decide to part ways.  But there are little things that let you know the two of you are doing things right.
From my BAD perspective: "When Hungry. if you wait for the fish to jump into your boat, you are going to starve to death. However, if you throw in your fishing line and imagine what a wonderful dinner you are going to have, the Universe will send many fish your way!".. the same mindset should applies to relationships when a sudden patch get's rough remember  what it was and imagine what it will  be like when the waters calm down. Your minds eye  is power thing use it wisely.
Let me just lean on you!

You have the support of others
Friends and family are the ones we turn to for acceptance of our choice in partner because we trust that they only want the best for us, and because they’re outside of the relationship so they can see things a little more clearly.  If your friends and family want to see you and your partner together, there’s something to be said about that.  Don’t get too caught up with what others think, but it is a good sign.

From my BAD perspective: The old song "Lean on me, when you're not strong... I'll be your friend, I'll help you carry on"..... comes to mind here. When you have someone you can lean on when things get rough, you know you have someone you can count on. Good times are never a true test of how your support of  each other is strong, it's  when things get rough and the person in your life steps up and helps you solve issues that is when you know that it is real, and that is what commitment is all about.  

You guys fight fairly
It’s a good thing if the two of you can have conflicts that do not resort to personal attacks and/or insults.  If your arguments are focused mainly on resolving known issues while still considering each other’s feelings and desires, then it’s a good sign that the two of you are good for each other.

From my BAD perspective: Go figure.... how different it must be to fight without insulting words hurled at each-other, no implied  short comings remarks, avoidance of physical altercations.  When you think about it... you would not tolerate others doing harm  physically or verbally insulting your partner, so why would you do it when you get angry at someone you love. 

 So how long do I need to stand against the wall
all the way over here
before you speak to me about the problem? 

You’re growing together
Any great relationship is great because there is growth by both people involved.  When the two of you do not inhibit one another’s emotional, mental and spiritual growth, then it’s a good sign that you’re meant to be together.

From my BAD perspective: Now this is meant to be pure elementary dear Watson, but as we all know even if you plant two trees the same day in the same soil, water them evenly. the root system will not grow at the same pace and the nutrient elements  in the soil may not be equal so one tree will grow faster than the other.  Now let's think about men and women for a split second in this same light. The woman might most likely mature  way faster than her man. So Ladies be patient if you really Love me...give him time to spread his roots and grow.   

let the brain waves connect without speaking!




You view each other as life partners
When you can’t imagine a life without your significant other it’s very telling of how deeply you care about them.  If you struggle to imagine a world where the two of you aren’t together in some form or another, and know that your partner feels the same way, you’re in the right relationship.

From my BAD perspective: Okay! Even life time partners have term limits. You should  function and deal with each other as if you are  having  the rest of you lives to enjoy each-other...    

footsy time causes a special connection!

You’re not interested in another love
While there are all types of love in this world, each of them are different, you can’t imagine yourself loving anyone but your partner.  Physical attractions will come and go harmlessly as long as we acknowledge them for what they are, and then let them go.
When you’re positive that no other bond in the world can compare to the connection the two of you have, it’s a good sign you’ve found the right relationship.


"Giving yourself to others is the most important thing. When you give, you get something in return."
From my BAD perspective: 
The misconception  that there is more fish in the sea, so if it does work out between you and yours  you can go fishing... Be very careful none of the fish, you catch,  might not be what you would consider as a permanent partner. Casting your net can result in many throwback fish being caught... Your biggest problem is that you will be doing some comparing and nothing and no one  ever compares with the best you have ever had. if you haven't had   the best then do what ~Michael Milken states.  


                                                                 Let's make a house a home!



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