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Ladies........You can talk about women’s liberation and how a woman can do what a man can, including making the most money, but the bottom line is that it is still, as brother James Brown sang, “a man’s world.” That’s not to say men are better or superior… it’s to say there are still a lot of societal expectations and dating norms in place. And actually, a lot of them are still pretty good concepts. If it’s a blind date or a chance meeting, there are body languages and behaviors that could send the wrong (or right) signals to a man. Here are six things that you should never do to a man when meeting him or out on a first date. Of course, these only apply if you are interested in him.
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Where have you been hiding most my life, up until this point? Do not ignore his flirtations. If he heads over to you, received him with a smile. He might not even come over – he might send over a drink. Raise it to him and acknowledge. Then if he heads over to you, tell him “thanks” and let the conversation begin! |
Yeah, She introduced me to her friends... Game on! |
At the time all this is going on, do not ignore your pals. Walk the fence. You don’t want your friends getting annoyed and then sabotaging your encounter. Ask him his name and then say, “Tyrone, nice to meet you. These are my friends, Lisa and Shay.” Everyone’s happy!
I appreciated the offer of a ride home... but no thanks, I don't know you yet! Do not go home with him that night. If you came with friends, leave with them. Exchange info with the guy, but it is not cool to disappear into the night with him. First of all, it’s not safe, and second of all, it does not make the right impression on him or your friends. |
I knew you were nice from the second spotted you!Do not be rude to dudes in the setting that you are not interested in. You don’t have to be so flirty with them, but do show simple consideration. Who knows who is watching? The right guy may see you acting rude and think twice about approaching you. |
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