A few Reasons Women Leave the Men They claim to Love

When a woman enters into a relationship, she is dedicated to seeing it succeed.  That deep commitment means that she’s likely to trust her partner, care for him  and love him.  She puts her partner before herself and is willing to give everything she has, even if it leads her in the wrong direction.
Women who are not careful will often end up in a hollow and harmful relationship, being manipulated and emotionally taken advantage of.  Self-respect is key to a healthy relationship, as  most good men seek out women who are strong and semi-independent, who recognize their worth and make sure that others recognize it as well.

Self-respect also gives you perspective.  The type of perspective that allows you to see something for what it truly is.  It gives a woman the power to leave the man she loves because it becomes crystal clear that she loved him for all of the wrong reasons.

Here are a few reasons that women will leave the men they fall in love with:

Are you a good communicator?

Failure to communicate

Women like having someone that they can talk with about things, and while they recognize that their partner cannot be with them 24/7, not being there when she needs you is a surefire way to get her to start packing her things.

Also, ‘being there’ means actually being there.  She wants you to listen and to give her feedback, not for you to simply nod and agree with everything she says.

A physical connection is more important than you might think

While men typically get pegged as the sexual ones in a relationship, women are just as sexual, if not more so.  Ignoring her sexual needs and desires will likely give off the impression that you’re getting your satisfaction elsewhere, or that she is unwanted.  Both of these damage the relationship.

Caring about your partner’s needs in bed also says that you value the relationship and that you want it to last.  Lust will always fade, but a true kind of love means you’re naturally attracted to your partner for much longer.

Insecurity

Why is he keeping his distance?

Everyone has them, but some are better at hiding them than others.  Outwardly projecting your insecurities is a great way to turn someone off from you entirely.  If a woman’s partner doesn’t trust her, and is constantly expressing distrust in her, she sees it as a lack of love and faith.

When you truly love your partner, you trust them entirely and know that they will not do anything to harm you.  This means no snooping through phones or email accounts looking for dirt.

I wish you would stop crowding me!

Lack of personal space

People absolutely need time to themselves, it’s a natural part of growing in life.  Suffocating a woman by not allowing her to spend time alone or with her friends causes resentment and unrest.  Always be sure to give her time and space to grow organically in her own way, just as you should be doing as well.

You try to change her

When you fall in love with a woman, you should be sure that you’re falling for who she is, not who you think she will become or who you can transform her into.  Every person deserves to be loved for who they are, and being with someone who is constantly trying to change every aspect about who you are will drive you insane.