Lets face it what she wants is for you to behave the way she wants!

Some Husbands Stress Women More Than Children.


Many women constantly complain about their husband’s behavior. Why is that? Why are there so many failed marriages and constant arguing?

Well, according to studies, most women don’t simply gossip about their husbands but are really stressed out by them. So they "Vent." Even though it is a popular belief to blame the stress on the children, in reality, the tension comes from the husband, not doing what the wife wants.

Of course, for this kind of outcome, the husband is not the only guilty one. On the contrary, this means that the couple doesn’t solve their problems together, as they should. Instead, they complicate their relationship and make the marriage stressful more each day.

Well, here are,  my version, for the reason for this problem and how maybe you can fix it.

Lack of Support

The most crucial thing in a marriage is the need for support. If one partner doesn’t support the other one, the parenting won’t function properly. As a result, the couple will have a difficulty properly bringing up, training, and teaching their child.

In the past, the full responsibility and the weight of raising the child fell on the mother. But, as surveys claim, husbands caused more stress for women compared to their children. Around 45% of mothers support these claims.

Why Does It Happen?

Well, when a woman chooses her partner (,here we go women choose their husbands not the other way around) and plans to form a family, they rarely ask their husbands if they are ready to put everything aside and contribute to their children. Women believe that it will somehow work out, like magic.

However, most husbands focus on their ideas and things they want to do, so they leave the work of raising a child to their wife. If you look at this problem from this perspective, the answer is obvious. It would be a surprise if this didn’t happen, that way.

Of course, there are exceptions. But, most of the time, women claim that they lack support from their husbands for raising the children. Men, on the other hand, defended themselves by claiming that the problem lies in the fact that women don’t ask for help....I can hear women think why should we ask for help, they are yours

Therefore, men believe that their wife has everything under control. However, women want men to be the ones who won’t need a reminder to take care of their child. They claim that men shouldn’t wait to be called. Instead, they should come and help willingly.

In conclusion, there is lack of proper communication and a lot of misunderstandings from both sides.

Husbands Demand Recognition

According to another survey, 1,500 fathers interviewed claimed that they took care of their children together with their wives. However, 75% of 2,700 mothers interviewed, claim that they raised their child on their own.

Furthermore, other fathers believe they were wounded for having a secondary role in the family. As a result, they want to be recognized by their wife for what they have done for the family. However, their wife never gives them any encouragement or recognition.

In conclusion, once again, lack of communication. Also, some women have set their expectations too high and believe that what they are doing is right and the husband is wrong. But, that is not true. Both parents equally love their children and take care of them.

How to Solve This Problem?

Counseling can be very helpful. However, if you don’t want to spend time and want to solve this problem by yourselves, here is something that might help you.

1. Communicate

Communication is the key. Whenever you feel there is something wrong with your partner, try to talk things through. But, don’t jump to conclusions before he or she finishes their side of the story. Instead, listen, and try to find a solution to the problem without judging each other.

If you don’t talk, you will never know what the problem is, and you will never face it. So, be the one who will take the first step, and try to communicate.

2. Let the Husband Contribute
Let the husband take some of the load off your shoulders. Being a mother is harder these days, with both working outside the house.

Figure out what will give the best result, and...... just do it. If you do not it could lead to  Divorce court, which will grant her what she wants anyway..