Find way's to express how Sorry you are part 3

Should I send him an email or a text?

 Write it out if you cannot say it


For all those who have difficulty in conveying your feelings in words, you can write out your apology. Not all of us can freely express what we feel. You could write out all that you have in your heart and leave the note with the person to read. You don't even necessarily have to be there when they are reading it. The point is to express how sorry you are.

 Help them in a way they want to be helped

This is one of the most important things to understand when you are in a situation where you have to apologize. It is very easy to apologize for the sake of it or for you to clear your conscience. However, a genuine apology will ensure that you are doing it purely for them and not for your own reasons.

Don't portray yourself as a victim

When you are apologizing to someone for something that you did wrong, remember not to make yourself the victim in the situation. You are apologizing to that person for something you did and it is about their feelings. Even if you feel slighted at some points or you don't necessarily agree, ask yourself if this person is worth something to you. If the answer is yes, put aside any other feelings and make sure to convey your apology.

 A warm, tight hug

Most times you don't need 'things' or materials to say or express that you are sorry. Sometimes the best apologies come in the form of a nice, tight hug where you can convey in actions that you are sorry. A hug can do wonders in reviving the lost emotions and feelings and it builds a sense of connection.

But, but, sometimes you say you are sorry but you're really  NOT Sorry at all. Pay back can be a B!tch.