My 5 B.A.D. reasons, why smart is the very sexy.
In 2013, as Ashton Kutcher accepted his Teen Choice Award, he left his screaming audience with words resonating with wisdom - "The sexiest thing in the entire world is being really smart. And being thoughtful. And being generous. Everything else is crap!"
We men have been defining what is sexy for decades. However men are visual beings..what we see is what we label. We can not see what a woman is thinking.. that mistory is still a missed-story. This is why I label smart women as very sexy. The unknown can be very intriguing....at least to me.
While smart is mostly self-explanatory, intellectual and "nerdy" kind of smarts may seem to deviate from our general definition of what can be considered "sexy".
So why do I think that smart women are the VERY sexy?
1. They want to really understand you.
if she engages you in a conversation
She is making an effort to learn more about you.
In contrast to Judgemental woman, who begrudge others based on a simple assumptions or first impressions, never once stopping to consider if they're being fair or not People can change, but their judgements of the person remain eternal.
Smart people make a conscious effort to understand others, to see them for who they really are. These people understand that no one is perfect, and know that beneath every facade lies an individual worth understanding. This is very good news for us guys, who, can now be chosen by a woman worthy of a good man. The old scene was the guy did the choosing, based on looks... seldom considering if the woman was as smart or smarter than him. The Obama couple changed that for many of us. The President never had to explain to us why Michelle was his equal in the area of smarts. They worked together before becoming a dynamic couple.
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2. They captivate you with their presence.
Smart women may be some of the most interesting people you meet.
In one way or another, these women seem to have this " je ne sais quoi" about them that's extremely infectious. They never fail to excite or inspire the world with their ideas. When
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Contrary to popular opinion, smart women are not boring. In fact, they might just be the most interesting women you will ever meet!
3. They often make better conversation partners.
Even if smart women might not know much about a certain subject, they'll ask interesting questions.
Smart women are often well read and can easily adapt to most conversational topics. Even without prior knowledge, they're able to probe and ask interesting questions that engage and excite. With them, you're free to be honest, not having to worry about patronising responses. Your words are actually valued.
4. They make you more curious about the world.
The desire to know will spread to people who know smart people.
Einstein once said, "I have no special talents, I am only passionately curious." Indeed, one of the fundamental bedrocks of intelligence is curiosity. After spending a certain amount of time with these people, you realise how little you know and how much there is to know. With them around, you end up re-living a younger version of yourself, the one that always just wanted to know more about everything.
5. Smart women challenge us to become better versions of ourself.
As smart women try to improve themselves, they also drive the people around them to get smarter as well.
Perhaps one of the sexiest things about smart women is that, on their way to self-improvement, the people around them grow as well. While their intelligence can sometimes be intimidating, you should see it as a source of Energy that prompts you to improve and become a better version of your current self.
Smart women are sexy. And more importantly, they help me to become sexy B.A.D. also.
3. They often make better conversation partners.
Even if smart women might not know much about a certain subject, they'll ask interesting questions.
Smart women are often well read and can easily adapt to most conversational topics. Even without prior knowledge, they're able to probe and ask interesting questions that engage and excite. With them, you're free to be honest, not having to worry about patronising responses. Your words are actually valued.
4. They make you more curious about the world.
The desire to know will spread to people who know smart people.
Einstein once said, "I have no special talents, I am only passionately curious." Indeed, one of the fundamental bedrocks of intelligence is curiosity. After spending a certain amount of time with these people, you realise how little you know and how much there is to know. With them around, you end up re-living a younger version of yourself, the one that always just wanted to know more about everything.
5. Smart women challenge us to become better versions of ourself.
As smart women try to improve themselves, they also drive the people around them to get smarter as well.
Perhaps one of the sexiest things about smart women is that, on their way to self-improvement, the people around them grow as well. While their intelligence can sometimes be intimidating, you should see it as a source of Energy that prompts you to improve and become a better version of your current self.
Smart women are sexy. And more importantly, they help me to become sexy B.A.D. also.
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