11/12/2017

Nice guys are Knights in full Armor!

You make me feel like  the luckiest
Woman in the world, I'm so very happy.

There is a consistent miss understanding in the dating circles, that "nice guys" always finish last.  To that I would say they don't finish last  because they are "nice!" they just don't run in the early races to come in first. .. they are trying  to "place " so that when the first place winner burns up all his energy winning the first race, he has no more spark to compete later in the final race. The "Nice guy", if choose as the last choice, by a lady with good taste ... "is a keeper", with enough reserved energy in his tank to do the following:
I can't believe you are willing to
untangle my hair for me

. He is ready and willing to please her.
. Spoil her
. Treat her with respect
. Compromise when he needs to.
. He is a lasting choice.
That final lap was the best, we kick A$$.


Instead of, like other contestant who will treat her as a winner's 1st place trophy prize. Women who understand that guys are competetive....may still not know, that these "nice guys" don't always run flat out at top speed to win.. in the preliminary races...placing is Ok. He is making sure he gets noticed, until the final race... The final is the key here. He conserve's his energy for the final stretch. A SMART man always has a strategy. If he happens to also be a nice guy then his qualities will shine brightly.
Nice guys do all of this and more!

BTW  when was  the last time a fine lady had to compete with other women for a nice guys attention? Would a nice lady have to compete for the attention of any guy? Most likely not!
Girls and even women compete for the bad-boys attention...who...will dismiss her when he is not interested or he will put her somewhere in the 1- 7 day rotation.
But a nice guy will put her on the top of his priority list 1-7 days weekly. The lady can reject this kind of nice guy if she wants, or try to put him on layaway. However she might just see him walking down the street with someone else, who stopped, and paid attention to him, for what she might have missed which is his kind gentlemanly nature therefore appreciate him for what you may have noticed. ..... way too late... or... flat out missed.
If a single available  woman does not pay attention to the good qualities  a good man possesses. Be assured, in this 10-1  women to men ratio, at least one of the other 9 ladies are scoping. You will see them  hand in hand  stroling, and wonder..... Why arent you "the one" with the knight in full shining Amor.
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