There is hope, ladies. Dont give up! It's that time a year.. love is in the air.

Fellahs if you are out hunting.... look very carefully at which finger she is wearing the ring on.

If You Spot A Woman Wearing A Ring On Her Pinky Finger, This Is What It Means....

Everywhere she turns, her friends are getting engaged.

She sits there staring as her best friend shows off her sparkly new diamond, excited about the forever love she has found.
She starts to think about her own life. When will she find the one, love of her life?  Or will he find  her? How will he propose? Who will her bridesmaids be?

What will her ring look like?

But wait a minute! Who says women need to wait for some other person to give them a ring?

Engagement rings are wonderful, but they shouldn’t be the epitome of a woman's  worthiness of love.

Well, get ready, because you’re about to see a ring made just for you, bearing an incredibly important message.

OKAY, I'll stop here with the internet commercial on self-love, identified by placing a ring on your own finger.
Im all for self-love and the usage of a ring specially made for you and every other woman like you....might be just what your doctor ordered.

By Now, You’ve Probably Admired at least One Or Two Of Your Besties’ Engagement Rings.

Big, shiny rocks they are so excited to show to their closest friends.

And you’re over their excitement.
Which means you are a little bit jealous  that a partner has entered into your friends life and has comitted to her happiness0

But Listen, You Don’t Need An Engagement Ring To Validate Your Worthiness Of Love In Any Way, Shape Or  form.


Mastering The Art Of Truly Loving yourselves, Independent Of A Partner’s Love, Is One Of The Most Important Life Goals.

It needs to be celebrated!

And Now, Women Everywhere Are Celebrating Their Awesome Selves With A Very Special Symbol.

A ring… Wow, self-love, is now showing a commitment by placing  a self bought ring on your own finger.


I Know, I Know. I just said You Don’t Need An Engagement Ring To Feel Loved. But This One Is Different.

This one is from you and for you. And it’s no consolation prize. It’s a statement.
This statement can have a reverse, adverse effect  on the guy you are looking  to attract. He might not really think the bling is about self- love he might be an honorable guy who respects that you seem to be  in a committed relationship with a someone other than yourself.

They’re called “Self Love Pinky Rings,” for a reason, created by Fred and Far, an L.A.-based jeweler. Hummmmm.
LOL, Fred and Far sound like two dudes who have a new marketing scene targeting women.... If they are two women then I would have to write another blog post identifying their motives.  But its clear as day light to me... they are capitalize on the holiday buying frenzy

To buy!

Each Ring Comes With A Contract.

“I [insert name], pinky promise to honour myself, to choose myself, to remember myself, on a daily basis.”

You write your name on the card as an official agreement that, from this day on, you are going to love and appreciate yourself unconditionally.


Seriously, Could These Rings Be Any More of play on women's minds?


They claim that Women all over the world are getting in on this trend!

The rings are made from white sapphire and come in either sterling silver ($150), or, yellow, white or rose gold ($325).

OK, now let me continue explaining why this can give men the wrong inpression.
Every honorable man wants a self-loving, self-motivated woman, but he also respects women in committed relationships, i.e. engaged, committed partnership, or married to someone else. So he will see the  fake engagenent ring on a finger from across the room, across the mall, across  in another supermarket isle... i.e. from a distance and think "Damn she is already taken... no need to knock on her door.... Next, available!"
So your girl friend has her forever after love partner, and you will delay yours by  doing what these two marketing dudes, Fred and Far, are suggesting! Think about how many good men will see you and think 'she's not available!' I.e. this is Just posting "Married" in your FB status. To fend off creeps. The creeps don't care, but honorable men do!