Being a member of the Holiday lonely club..... can be unsettling , for some members.

By closing my eyes I will not
 see that I'm alone!

These are the times when games are played by those who seem to, think, they have the advantages of being in multiple relationships. But they are messing with  peoples lives.The msg is always crystal clear to the others who are #2 or higher on the bench.waiting their turn. You may not even be on the priority chart( actually lowest in interest chart). Please note that #1 has the upper hand  unless she messup (in his mind) and start challenging the status quo, and wanting to be the only one ( she might get dropped in the pririoty order) these folks  will not have most of the benefits ( alloted time) during the Holidays.. #2 and higher priority numbers can look forward to time after New year day, but will have to sacrifice all the Christmas holidays from thanksgiving through New years eve
So how does it feel, knowing that the cheers are never toasted

That special
Moment!

Cheers to your happiness
In the New Year.

by you or to you during those moments next to the Christmas  tree...the fireworks show ,at the stroke of midnight kissing under the moesletoe. all this will be enjoyed by others... mainly couples in exclusive relationships. But all is not lost you might get a text notice on "January one"... when a quick FB text or mini voice msg  flows through. ... the sound of your booh's voice brings that instant exciting feeling right back  again
... hmmm...... until the next major holiday rolls around like Valentine's day and Easter. Some of you ladies might start singing the old song " you are going to make me Love somebody else if you don't stop treating me the way you do!"

If this sound synical or worst to you then please don't feel as if I judging others because I'm not. I actually I went through some very similar situations during a phase in my earlier life... my smooth "I will make it up to you" after the fact comments always seem to work... and I was able to keep the relationships going for a little... but I hurt someone I did care about deeply. So I was not always very happy with my selfish behavior... of stringing young vulnerable women along just to feed my over inflated ego.   I'm not writing this about my B.A.D. behaviors... this is about the 1 guy in multiple relationships with a few ladies. Many women are being short changed of their happiness. If the shortage of good men is causing you to settle for being #2 or worse yet #3 or higher then you have some soul search to do in the New Year.
Best of  luck to you!
I HOPE the following  lyrics are not your experience.

Even sending him a pic of this outfit didn't work
Seriously? 

TAMAR BRAXTON

If I Don't Have You Lyrics



Sitting in the dark
Off in my room
Thinking of you
I'm at the brink of me breaking' down
Cause all these thoughts of me and you apart
Won't leave my head right now
Baby, baby call me crazy
Cause I know without I won't be no good
When the latch on my heart comes unhooked

You should know
If I don't have you
Rocks me to the core
I can't love no more
If I don't have you
Know I'm done for sure
Nobody worth fighting for
I'm tear done these walls
That's on my life
I lost my mind if I don't have you

Looking at my phone
but you aint even call
I put it in the draw
Cause I wanna be right next to you
If you wanna talk
Baby come on through
Before it's all done
Tell me I'm your only one

Baby, baby call me crazy
Cause I know without I won't be no good

When the latch on my heart comes unhooked

You should know
If I don't have you
Rocks me to the core
I can't love no more
If I don't have you
Know I'm done for sure
Nobody worth fighting for
I'm tear down these walls

That's on my life

I'll lost my mind if I don't have you
If I don't have you

So wait till it starts things over
Can't seem to get it together
We're trying, we try
But we won't look wrong
Dead end, their eyes
try to make it right
Cause I don't wanna fight
Cant see myself without in my mind

Please don't say you're done with me
Cause you're my baby
Baby
You should know
If I don't have you
Rocks me to the core
I can't love no more
If I don't have you baby
Know I'm done for sure
Nobody work fighting for

I'm tears down these walls
That's on my life
I'll lost my mind if I dont
If I don't have you
Rocks me to the core
I can't love no more
If I don't have you baby
Know I'm done for sure
Nobody worth fighting for
I'm tear down these walls
That's on my life
I'll lose my mind if I don't have you