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Noticeable Signs You’re In A Bad Relationship..... (But Don’t Want to Admit It)
“A Poisonous relationship can alter our perception. You can spend many years thinking you’re worthless. But you’re not worthless. You’re underappreciated.” – Steve Maraboli
The willing participants of a toxic relationship are probably the last ones to realize that their relationship is unhealthy. People on the outside notice it before the participants do and even if the outsiders try to tell the participants that the relationship is toxic, they won’t acknowledge it as the truth. They might feel that people are becoming jealous or paranoid for no reason. It is only after the relationship takes a turn for the worst and ends that they realize that people were right.
Marriage & family therapist and author Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT says, “Healthy relationships nourish and support us. A toxic relationship, on the other hand, is like poison to us — instead of lifting us up, it makes us feel worse. When it ends, we might experience Post-Traumatic Stress or a lessening of self-esteem and trust in ourselves and others.”
We tend to ignore all the signs to protect ourself worthiness that’s how we are programmed to behave but its possible to realize the situation with some behavioural insight.
Here Are a few Signs You’re In A Bad Relationship
1.You’re Wondering If Your Relationship Is Bad
If you’re constantly questioning yourself whether or not your relationship is worth it, it may be your subconscious telling you that something is wrong This is your subconscious telling you something, very important about your status..
This doesn’t mean that all relationships are unhealthy because every ship rocks but if thats all its doing; if its rocking all the time, it may be good to sit down and think things through.
2.You don’t feel like you are a priority.
People in healthy relationships will always keep their partner is a priority; they will do everything in their power to make you feel supported and cared for. If you feel single even when you’re in a relationship, you would better off be single!
3.If they don’t want to do something, then you can’t do it either.
They’ll be really controlling. If they don’t feel like doing something they will not let you do it as well. Your opinion won’t matter to them, your needs are not a priority.
In a toxic relationship, … you are constantly put down, criticised and forced to do what is unacceptable to you and your values. When your autonomy in thoughts, words, and decisions is taken away and you start actually believing and accepting that you have no choice in any matter.
4.Your Friends And Family Dislike Your Partner
You might notice that your friends and family don’t like your partner. These are the people that will always look out for you and want the best for you so their opinion should be taken seriously.
Listen to them... the are seeing what you are not. Don't assume they are not seeing the good that your toxic partner brings into your life.
5. A plastic partner is never going to make you happy.
The notion that people change... is a dillusional concept. Some do! But most never change at their core. Selfish people do not become unselfish just like that.free. it is all about then. They will try and convince you that your World should rotated around them. You need to do a 180 rotation, and move on... if you do a 360 you will never stop rotating around their axle.
Trust me a guy with B.A.D. initials I recognize bad when I see it.
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