11/14/2017

Saying "I'm sorry" is tough but not impossible

I'm old school so I have learned a few things over years through trial and many errors. Whenever I make a woman mad at me I try to figure out what I can do to apologize  and help her get over it. Believe me I have a list that is too long for one post so I will do it in 3 parts.
The following may or may not  work  but they will show that you are trying.

 1.Take her out somewhere nice!


You could apologize by taking the person out somewhere nice or to a place of their choice. This gesture shows that you are making an effort to make them happy. This does not necessarily mean a fancy restaurant or an exotic place but you could them to a special place where you could sit down and have a conversation. Communication is key in such situations and this could be a good way to show that you are sorry.

 2.Do something they like

Apologize to her by doing something with them that they enjoy doing or something that would make them happy. Showing an interest in the other person's interests and trying to reciprocate that could make your apology work. People always feel good knowing that there is someone who is making an effort for them. So, do a little homework and find out what it is that would make them happy.

3.Give her the space she needs.




Sometimes, as hard as it may be, the best apology is giving the other person space and the time to deal with their hurt. You have to remember that they are the ones who are feeling bad about something and perhaps would like to have some space. Just because you are sorry about something does not mean that you constantly apologize to them for your satisfaction. A true apology is one in which you understand what the other person wants.
 Be genuine



Remember, the best apology is the most sincere and genuine one. It's the one that has no tricks or gimmicks involved but just a raw genuine apology to fix the damage you have caused. It doesn't mean that they will instantly forgive you but a heartfelt apology can go a long way in fixing something. The person hurt needs to believe and see that you are genuinely feeling bad for whatever you did.



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