So what infuenced you the most about what someone said regarding how the feel about you

 One of the most common derisive taunts thrown at feminists – and one of the oldest – is “manhater”. It’s been around since the days of suffrage, and still gets used today, though its a pretty anodyne insult. Most feminists,  shun the label and work to convince people that despite the stereotypes feminists absolutely, without a doubt, do not hate men.

 "they don't Hate, hate you.. They just don't like you. like you! So what?

When women hate men, they intend to hurt their feelings. When men hate women, they intend  to kill them: mass shootings have been attributed to misogyny, and sexual and domestic violence against women is often fueled by a hatred for women.

we can't like everyone, but we should, let's face it some folks are just not likeable.. But to just decide you just don't like someone for no reason seems like you have a serious problem with your radar.

Fellas hunt women that look the way we want them to look, regardless of their history. But after we have the facts about her history we might just retreat to a better place.

wow she had a baby for another guy not too long ago, or she had been in too many relationships that failed. the signs speak volumes.

when  men judge a woman we are often judging based  on the women who have been part of our passed.

women play innocent because it work best for them. We’re talking about playing innocent. Does your loved one ever do that? I'll try get into the details, and I do believe you’ll be able to relate. It’s so common, and knowing how to handle this is essential. And if you’re thinking, “Oh  gosh, boring! Covert aggression? What is that? Sounds too technical. Not interested.”

So, let’s dive into the first sign of covert aggression.

 Here we go. It’s playing innocent, pretending to be ignorant, or pretending to be confused. This is covert aggression.

It’s playing dumb when something is awful, or when something awful they did is called to their attention.

A covertly aggressive reaction would be them acting surprised that you really wanted them to go. 

They would say something like, “I had no idea how much it meant to you.” Or, “I didn’t realize how badly you wanted me to join you.” When in fact you had made it very clear to them many times that you were excited or that it was important to you.