3/16/2022

when a woman isn't as kind as her mother was.. do you think to yourself you made a mistake in choosing her

 

There are many reasons why relationships fall apart these days.

here are just a few:

  1. Trust Issues. The lack or loss of trust is one of the most harmful impediments to a couple's long-term success. 
  2. Different Expectations. 
  3. Moving Through Life at Different Speeds. 
  4. Communication Issues. 
  5. Life Habit Abuse. 
  6. Sense of Growing Apart. 
  7. Financial Issues.
What is the most common reason relationships fail?
The main reasons why relationships fail are loss of trust, poor communication, lack of respect, a difference in priorities, and too little intimacy.
Most of us want to meet and settle down with the “right” person, and most of us want such a relationship to last. At the same time, the majority of romantic partnerships end in dissolution.
When a guy meets a woman's family (her mother is the most important person in her life) so the guy pays close attention to the mothers personality. If he sees what kind of woman her mother is and likes her. He assumes the daughter might  be somewhat the same. But these two women might  be Worlds apart. Looking alike does not mean they are alike. If you read the signs incorrectly you might be in for a big surprise.
Dysfunctional mother-daughter relationships can come in many forms. Often it can take form in criticism, where a daughter feels like she's constantly getting negative feedback from her maternal figure. Sometimes, it can take the form of detachment. “Some women are simply not close to their mothers. 
Daughters often look to their mothers as role models and understandably want their mothers' support and approval. When their mothers are unable to provide that support and approval, daughters can experience feelings of emptiness or anxiety.
What are signs of mommy issues in females.
Common signs of "mommy issues."
  • Clinginess. 
  • Being demanding or critical. 
  • Struggles with affection. 
  • Lack of independence. .
  • Detachment. .
  • Excessive caretaking. 
  • A tense relationship with her mom. her mother may try to make the daughter feel guilty for being different and may consistently try to change her. This can lead the daughter to feel that they are often disappointing their mother and often trying to please without success. This can lead to arguments, resentment and overall an unhealthy relationship. Which can lead to unhealthy relationships with the man she chooses.   

Fiinal thougths

It’s not unusual for mother-daughter relationships to feel the strain as both parties navigate from a parent /child relationship to both being independent adults. It’s to be expected. We still live in a society, in a world, that really doesn’t listen to women! So mothers and daughters play that out in their relationship – the inequality and the sexism and the violence and other experiences that women have. believes society sets up mother-daughter relationships to fail – by expecting women to silence themselves and put their own needs last.

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